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Hello. I want to share my story because, when I searched for something similar online or on forums, I couldn't find anything comparable. If I did find something related to my situation, it was often very frightening. Maybe my story will help someone. I'm not complaining; I genuinely want to share. In 2015, my husband and I decided to have a child, but we faced failure, and I had a miscarriage, which was managed with a vacuum procedure. In 2017, we tried again, and experienced another miscarriage, again with a vacuum. We underwent full examinations, and everything was fine both genetically and health-wise. In 2018, I became pregnant, and in 2019, I gave birth to a daughter. The pregnancy was complicated, with toxicosis, and I spent about a week at home and two weeks in the hospital. Our daughter was born premature, weighing 1750 grams, but thankfully, she was healthy. Later, we decided to have a second child, but nothing worked. Then, finally, I became pregnant again, and yet another miscarriage occurred... The doctor recommended a medical abortion. I read online about how it is done and saw it firsthand. People said it was more painful than childbirth, with frequent bleeding, etc. On September 7th, I was admitted to the hospital. At noon, I was given one tablet of mifepristone (to detach the embryo from the uterus). I started feeling stronger menstrual-like cramps and some dull pain in my lower back. Around 6 pm, I began to bleed. On September 8th, at 6:00 am, I was given two tablets of misoprostol under the tongue, and the cramps resumed. At noon, I took one more tablet, experiencing pain-free pulling sensations and some dull pain in my lower back and inside my pelvis. At 6 pm, I took another tablet, and around 8:30 pm, I noticed the fetal sac on the pad. I didn't understand how it came out; I found it when I went to the toilet. On September 9th, around 1:30 pm, I also found chorionic tissue. I'm sharing this in case someone else finds themselves in a similar situation. Don't be too frightened by the pain; everyone's body reacts differently. Some find it very painful, while others, like me, experienced it as similar to menstrual cramps. I couldn't find any stories online where someone had a normal, uncomplicated process; most stories end in tragedy at any stage. According to ultrasound, my pregnancy was in a frozen state at 11 weeks and 2 days. And no, I did not have a miscarriage in the traditional sense; there were no detachments according to two different ultrasounds.
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Aruzhan
Thank you for your description. This information is helpful for those who are experiencing similar situations. Not everyone reacts the same way, and it's important to know that some people go through the process without severe pain. In case of such an experience, the most important thing is to stay calm and consult with a doctor.
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Darya
Aruzhan I wrote this because there are only horrors online.
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Lora
I have a friend who was 20 weeks pregnant (the baby stopped developing at 18 weeks). She also underwent a medical abortion or what is called a surgical delivery. She followed a similar procedure, taking pills. Her stomach was just aching like during a period, and she was constantly made to walk. Suddenly, the fetus was expelled from her without any pain, contractions, or other symptoms.
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Darya
Lora A girl was lying with me at 22 weeks. Her waters broke. She was also given medication. She said she had contractions, but they weren't painful, unlike during labor. At 6:00, they gave us Mirolyut, and at 12:30, she gave birth. However, she was given 3 tablets for placental detachment, whereas I was given only 1.
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Svetlana Sadovnikova-Rulinskaya
Lora It seems that due to the pills, I am not experiencing contractions. During my second pregnancy, I lost my baby at 18 weeks. My waters broke during a check-up with the doctor. Before that, I had some cramping. So, I had a full labor. I was in labor for 4 hours, but I didn't have the urge to push. The doctor simply delivered the baby from me.
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Darya
Svetlana Sadovnikova-Rulinskaya Mirolyut, on the contrary, causes the uterus to contract and induces contractions. Everyone's body is different. When I was hospitalized with my daughter for bed rest, they admitted a girl with a 6-week pregnancy loss, and she was experiencing painful contractions and crying.
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Darya
Svetlana Sadovnikova-Rulinskaya The girl who was lying with her now also gave birth. On the bed. Honestly, it was a terrible sight...
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Natali
My experience was quite similar, but it all happened at home. I was given one tablet during the appointment. The others I took with me, and they explained when and how to take them. Everything went smoothly. It all happened quickly. It wasn't painful.
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Al
Первая замершая,вторая анэмбриония.Оба раза-вакуум чистка.Боль была адская,врачи ждали оба раза до последнего,назвали операции через 2-3 дня после попадания в больницу.Чего ждали-не знаю,видимо,были очереди.Лежала в государственных.Отходить от наркоза -худшее,что испытывала в жизни,оба раза прошло всё негладко.Боль в животе,сильное кровотечение до и после. Через пару недель -УЗИ.Все без спаек и хорошо.
Не дай Бог кому испытать.Всех,кто прошел через подобное,обнимаю🤞🏻
Darya
Natali That's why they don't really write about it on the internet. They only mention how people 'died.' It scares girls who already have a hard time 😒
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Darya
Al Thank you for sharing! 😊
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Anna
Ten weeks without painkillers—I probably would have died. The pain was so intense that I was twisted with agony. I didn't even feel this during childbirth.
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Darya
Anna Thank you for sharing. ☺
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