Девочки , сын уже с марта ходит в садик до обеда . дальше не держат. 🤷 к одной воспитательнице он нормально идет , не ревет . а как другая начинает реветь и всё сразу идет не так , а решает она т.к. старшая . ещё при виде няньки ревет . 🤦‍♀️ я уже не знаю что делать . устала просто возить его на несколько часов и +дорога . он у меня обратно спать хочет , засыпает в автобусе а потом и вовсе дома бывает не поспит весь режим сбивается . так бы спал бы в садике , но не оставляют . 🤷 то нормально или бывает и больше так мурыжат ?) у меня кст у старшего сына тоже эти воспитательницы были и так же у одной ревел не нравилась к другой шёл ) но его так долго не держали на полный день быстрее взяли .
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Masha
Dealing with caregivers can be quite common. To reduce stress, try transitioning to a more consistent routine so your child can get used to different caregivers. Discuss with the director to ensure consistent approaches. Don't worry too much about crying — it's a normal part of the adjustment process. Try to remain calm and confident so your child feels secure. It might also help to reduce visits temporarily, so your child doesn't associate the daycare with conflicts.
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Jana Gordienko
So, the older one is stricter. Of course, it's not normal; they should both help the child adapt. Many children cry before starting school.
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Olya
Would you consider changing the daycare? Perhaps you'll find one where both caregivers are kind and attentive.
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Anna
It's a bit strange, of course. My son will start kindergarten in June. We were told right away that the first few days would be two hours each, then until lunchtime, and eventually he would stay for the full day. They advised us not to delay, so he gets used to the routine and we don't want him to want to leave early or be picked up before the end. Overall, even though it's a bit sad, it's important for him to get used to it.
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Marisha Poletaeva
Anna We have been going since the beginning of March. Initially, we went for 2 hours without breakfast and lunch. After about a week, I started giving him food until lunchtime, and we've been doing that ever since. In the mornings, he seems to have a good breakfast, plays well, but then he wants to sleep, and that's when the fussiness begins. He eats very little at lunch, but at home, he doesn't eat much either because his breakfast is enough for him — he tends to eat little overall. He doesn't need a lot before bed. He wakes up when he's hungry, and then he can eat normally.
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Anna
Marisha Poletaeva Maybe you need to talk to the supervisor about this issue. If they keep holding onto it until lunchtime and then go home, he might never get used to it at all.
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Anna
Anna Marina, I wanted to ask you: how does your little son eat? You mentioned earlier that he's a picky eater. What does he usually eat? Does he eat soups?

We have a similar situation—our son eats breakfast well and hearty, but for lunch, he often refuses to eat much, and dinner varies—sometimes he eats normally, sometimes only a little, so his intake isn't very much.
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Marisha Poletaeva
Anna He eats all kinds of soups, but only at home. He has a good breakfast, but his lunch is quite poor. Once he wakes up around 4:00 PM, he eats again, and he also has a snack before bed.
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Marisha Poletaeva
Anna Our lunch isn't great today. But then again, how's yours?
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