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Hello everyone. This might not be the right forum, and I may be off-topic, but I need to get this of…

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Hello everyone. This might not be the right forum, and I may be off-topic, but I need to get this off my chest. My husband struggles with alcohol. He goes on binge drinking episodes every 3 to 5 months, lasting nearly 10 days. This causes me a lot of stress. I suffer from severe headaches and feel very nervous. When he's not drinking, he's a completely different person. But the binge episodes are hell... Every time, I want to leave him, but I also remember the good days. I feel like I lack willpower or strength. I'm so weak... 😢☹️😫
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Masha
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Seek support in specialized groups and consultations. Don't face this alone. Take care of yourself.
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June 11, 2025, 5:34 PM
Naziya sidiki
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Why is he still your husband? Why don't you love yourself more? My ex-husband used to drink. Those were not good days; he was sinking. Why are you putting up with this?
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June 11, 2025, 5:36 PM
Gaynullina Liliya
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Yes, you like this kind of life. Overcoming 'difficulties' (I did it — I'm proud of myself). The compassion of those around you (everyone's pitying you, and you're the center of attention). Now, continue on your own and enjoy the benefits of your situation.
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June 11, 2025, 5:36 PM
tanya
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Are you codependent? You might consider joining a support group for women and individuals living with loved ones who have addictions to alcohol or drugs. Are you going to keep trying to save him for a long time? Making endless excuses for his illness? Why are you punishing yourself with such a life? Your spouse is ill. Until he recognizes it himself, your presence in his life is only wasting your own time.
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June 11, 2025, 5:39 PM
Stepanova Elena
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You just need to gather your strength and cut all ties with him. I’ve been through that myself.
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June 11, 2025, 5:39 PM
Nosko (Harlanchuk) Alena
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The future for alcoholics is uncertain. Their binges will become longer, with periods of sobriety lasting only three months followed by ten days of drinking. Ultimately, this is just a matter of time. If they don't see the problem and don't plan to seek treatment, sooner or later, they will succumb to alcoholism and related health issues. The question is: do you want to spend all this time with them, losing your youth and attractiveness in the process, or do you want to set things straight, get a divorce, and start a new life? This is your life — there won't be a second chance, and youth passes quickly. Keep that in mind.
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June 11, 2025, 5:45 PM
IrIsKa
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What pain do you feel about him drinking? Is he on vacation at that time?
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June 11, 2025, 5:45 PM
Suhareva Olga
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You are experiencing codependency. A 12-step program can help you. There are free in-person meetings available in your city through Telegram.
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June 11, 2025, 5:45 PM
Evgeniya
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Gaynullina Liliya You won't believe it—no one regrets it at all. I don't complain to my family about anything...
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June 11, 2025, 10:35 PM

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