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Hello everyone, I haven't been active for a while. Today was my first screening, and I was initially hopeful and happy, but everything suddenly fell apart. I took a blood test, and it revealed that my baby has 21 chromosomes (Down syndrome) with a risk of 1/259. I honestly don't know what to think. They suggested doing an amniocentesis during the second screening to confirm the diagnosis. I'm really scared because I didn't have any issues with my first pregnancy. Please don't judge me, but I feel overwhelmed and worried that I won't be able to handle this if it's confirmed. I don't want my baby to suffer…
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Elena
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What will happen to a child like that when you're no longer here?
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June 20, 2025, 6:54 PM
Elena
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Elena Only people who don't think about what tomorrow will bring criticize such decisions.
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June 20, 2025, 6:54 PM
mika sofa
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Don't get ahead of yourself and jump into piercing too soon. There's no need to feel upset just yet.
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June 20, 2025, 6:54 PM
Elizaveta
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I understand how difficult this is right now. These news are very hard to accept, especially since your child was completely healthy before. Remember, a diagnosis is not a verdict, and many children with Down syndrome grow up happy and loved. The abdominal puncture is one way to clarify the situation, and it will help you make an informed decision. Don't rush to conclusions—take things step by step, and know that you're not alone. There is plenty of support available.
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June 20, 2025, 6:55 PM
Nastyusha
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A risk level of 1 in 259 is not too high. Consider going for a NIPT test to be sure. Everything might be fine.
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June 20, 2025, 6:57 PM
Tretyakova Alla
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I heard that this type of piercing could potentially lead to a miscarriage, with an estimated risk of about 1 in 300. Please take care and consult with your healthcare provider for personalized advice.
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June 20, 2025, 7:00 PM
Tretyakova Alla
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Tretyakova Alla If I’m not mistaken, of course.
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June 20, 2025, 7:00 PM
Alina
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Basic or personalized?
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June 20, 2025, 7:00 PM
yuliya simakova
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Please wait for the second screening and check carefully to ensure everything is accurate.
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June 20, 2025, 7:03 PM
Marina
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Please do the test. If there's a risk indicated by the screening blood test, keep in mind that it has a significant margin of error. The result is not definitive but only indicates a probability.
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June 20, 2025, 7:03 PM
Tatyana
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In that case, it's better to get the piercing done first. Then, you can assess the situation accordingly. I know a few women who had very high risks—almost 1 in 60—who gave birth after turning 40. In the end, everything turned out well with their children.
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June 20, 2025, 7:06 PM
Natalya
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Please perform the NIPT test; it has an accuracy of up to 99%.
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June 20, 2025, 7:09 PM
Irishka
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It seems that things aren't as bad as Ginya told me. It's only really concerning when it's 1% below 100; everything else is fine.
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June 20, 2025, 7:39 PM
Anna
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This is not the scariest risk, you know. Go and get tested for 21 chromosomes. It costs around $16,000. Don't worry.
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June 20, 2025, 9:06 PM
Rass Grand
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Don't worry. It's best to get tested again and see another doctor for a second opinion. During my first screening, I was told that my baby might be born with Down syndrome, and I also experienced a lot of stress at that time. However, during the second screening, everything was fine, and the doctor reassured me that my baby is healthy.
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June 20, 2025, 9:18 PM
Nika
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Rass Grand Our ultrasound results are also good. The baby is developing according to the gestational age. However, in the blood tests, they mentioned that based on the ultrasound and external appearance, the child might not look different from a healthy baby.
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June 20, 2025, 9:47 PM
Vika
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I fully support your decision and your thoughts! No matter what, it's better to live with it yourself than for your child to suffer lifelong from feelings of inadequacy. Unfortunately, these things happen, and I am truly sorry if this turns out to be the case. But please know that we are here to support you. 🩷🩷
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June 22, 2025, 9:05 AM

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