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Have you ever found yourself seeking male attention? I’m not sure how this happens for me—I tend to start flirting, and I have trouble controlling it; I don’t understand how it all works. There’s one man I seem to have feelings for. Of course, he’s married and has a child, but I don’t want anything from it; I understand that. Before I had kids and a husband, I had a fling when I was working. Since then, the spark with my husband disappeared, or maybe I’ve grown tired of it—I crave attention and conversation, just something. I don’t know how this happens; it happened: a fling, and yes, I like one man, but he’s married and has a child. I have no plans, I just want attention.
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Tatyana
This has never happened before. Flirting and being coquettish aren't for me.
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Kristina
No, that hasn't happened. But I do know some examples. I would hate to lose my job, so subordination is everything to us.
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Tatyana
Colleagues at work constantly paid attention to me. They didn't care that I was already married, or that there was no reciprocation. I simply was liked, and that was all. Some invited me on dates; others gave me chocolates.

Even when I was heavily pregnant, a colleague (I've worked in office sales my whole life) continued to show me attention.

But as soon as I gave birth, apparently the energy changed - no one even looked my way 😂😂😂 Thank God 😂😂😂
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Gorb Anya
No, that's not how it is. I used to worry that my face didn't come across well, but somehow people tell me I always look as if I am angry. Builder's Day 🤣
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IRINA
She went to work to do her job, not to flirt, especially since she is married.
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Rimma
You're not getting the attention you need at home, so you might be looking for it elsewhere.
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Irina
I understand that it might seem like you're looking for attention on the side, because it's not enough in your marriage. Maybe that's the whole story. My workplace is almost entirely female. And in general, I never flirted with men while I was married.
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Biryuk Svetlana
Attention is always nice. From all around and from people of all genders... It often seems to me that this happens even when you're not flirting.
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Irina
I think I'll upvote your comment this time.
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Tamasyan Yuliya
There is a hierarchical structure at work.
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Kazaku Olga
They're going to be clucking away anyway—don't worry 🤣🤣🤣
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Kazaku Olga
Anyway, don't try to please everyone.
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Kazaku Olga
Kristina And I didn't lose it 😂; then I left on my own.
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Kazaku Olga
IRINA Sigh, this is boring.
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Anastasiya
I'm full of dignity, and I don't need the attention of married men)))
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Anastasiya
It's always funny when people get upset after someone calls things by their real names.
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Kazaku Olga
I don't give a damn about you.
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Anastasiya
I'm not easily convinced 🤣
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Evryukova Kristina
I enjoy attention, but I never reciprocate.
So rekindle a spark with your husband! Why look for it elsewhere when the civil registry office has given you a man specifically for passion and attention?
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Vinitskaya yana
At least they won't be S and P... I don't want them to pity my husband 😄
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Kira
A friend's family fell apart; she is now left on her own with three children, and men no longer find her attractive. Her husband later found another woman and is happily married. If a husband doesn't pay attention, that's not only his problem. You also need to know how to flirt with your husband.
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