Hi there! How are you all doing? Oh, I was sure I would get stuck in planning mode again. It feels l…

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Hi there! How are you all doing? Oh, I was sure I would get stuck in planning mode again. It feels like I am supposed to obsess over every detail, worry, and get upset. These stages seem inevitable. There are ten days left until my period, and I am already worried that it did not work out. Would you like to know why? I am thinking about my last pregnancy… Even a week before my period, all the tests were positive, and my breasts hurt so much I cried. This time there is total silence. My breasts do not hurt at all, even though I have hereditary mastopathy. There was discharge as usual, and I have been feeling off… I am sorry for venting. And I am already telling myself what it would mean if it is true. Plus, we waited a year for a second pregnancy, and this time I hope for it from the first cycle 🤯🤪. All in all, I am getting on my own nerves.
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Anastasia
Well, what can I say - don’t be hard on yourself or beat yourself up; you know pregnancies can vary enormously. Try to take the test about 3-4 days before your period, at least, when it’s more likely to show a result. ))
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Nelli
😅😅😅 Men like emotions; the most important thing is that they are good 🫶🫶🫶
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Nelli
Good luck to you! 🫶🫶🫶
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Elena Kulikova
Here I am again 😅. In my last cycle, the test took almost a week to show a result, but this month it hasn't shown anything yet, and I've started thinking that nothing worked 🤦️, even though I know in my head that pregnancies can differ.
Wishing you all patience and good luck 🍀—everything will work out ❤️
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Sholpan
Nelli Thank you so much )) Fortunately, I have enough sense not to show it to my husband )
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Nataliya Dyachuk
And where would we be without this )?
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tatyana
Have you had a medical check-up? Maybe something is hindering your ability to conceive soon.
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Sholpan
tatyana Not right now. For now, we'll just try...

When we planned for a daughter, we underwent tests. It was all hard. My husband's sperm counts declined because of his job and age (he was always near the stove; he was a chef in a restaurant).

As soon as he left that job, I became pregnant the next month.

But after our daughter's birth, there were moments when a pregnancy seemed possible (per ultrasound), but it didn't work out...
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tatyana
tatyana Perhaps it's worth getting another check-up so we don't waste any more time.
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Sholpan
tatyana Yes, we plan to work on this over the coming year. At the moment, there isn’t active planning — we don’t have doctors on board yet — because this year is busy for everyone with work, so it’s difficult to find an opportunity to meet in person right now.
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