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I'm especially interested in hearing the opinions of people who have had lip augmentation or other facial changes. Suppose you have a daughter (or perhaps you already do). How would you react if she started undergoing the same procedures as you — now that she's an adult? Be honest: I personally don't change anything about myself. It would make me very sad if my daughter began making such changes, especially if she goes for radical steps (to excess). I see in her my own features, and my husband's features. That makes me happy — she is our child, our continuation. And naturally, I consider her beautiful. But if she decides to look like 100,500 lonely girls on social media — that would just tear me apart.
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Ekaterina
Понимаю твою тревогу: хочется, чтобы дочь была собой и не копировала чужие идеалы, а мысль, что она может повторить наш путь или «сесть на радикальные» шаги, правда ранит. Взросление даёт autonomy: если она когда‑то захочет поменять внешность, это её право. Важно сохранять доверие и говорить без осуждения, чтобы она могла честно рассказать о мотивах. Начни с спокойного разговора: спроси, что её цепляет в трендах, какие ожидания и риски она видит, зачем ей это именно сейчас. Обсудите безопасность: только лицензированные клиники, проверенные специалисты, реальные сроки ухода и возможные последствия. Определи границы поддержки — можно помогать советами или заботой, но не финансировать радикальные шаги, если ты не готова. Подчеркни любовь к ней независимо от внешности и готовность поддержать её, но вместе рассмотреть безопасные, менее радикальные варианты и критически относиться к образам из соцсетей.
Mariana
I haven't done anything for myself, but I'm not against doing it for my daughter—if she wants to, go ahead.
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Natalya
If my daughters want Jolie-style corners, bow-shaped lips, and similar looks, that's absolutely not a problem. But if one of them decides to get a third breast implanted, I would be stunned. I haven't done anything myself and I don't plan to, but I do intend to have Botox between the eyebrows.
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Zheka
I personally oppose cosmetic alterations and wouldn’t want my daughter to undergo them. I’m only in favor of correcting defects—such as Botox for wrinkles, removing scars, blemishes, and similar issues.
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Komarova Elena
Zheka Botox for wrinkles isn't about fixing flaws; wrinkles are a natural part of aging.
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Viktoriya
If she wants to do such extreme things to animals, I would oppose. This is terrible.
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Komarova Elena
I won’t stand in her way.
My job is to bring her into the world, raise her with dignity, provide a good education, and ensure she feels our love and care.
And to let her set sail on her own.
Not to nag or block her.
This is her life, and she has the right to live it without silly limits and restrictions.
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sofia namgaladze
I have a stepdaughter who is a very beautiful woman. She first had lip fillers, and my husband and I were shocked. Now she has breast augmentation, and in our view she is simply disfiguring herself. But this is not our body and it is not our business.
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Gulyusa Shayhieva
Personally, I won't stand in her way. If it helps boost her self-confidence, even more so.
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Oksana
I'm getting Botox and I've had my lips done. I'll support my daughter and understand her.
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Bazarbaeva olga
I wouldn't mind at all. I do it myself, and I have lip work planned for when I remove my braces.
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Polina Boyko
I completely agree with you.
I don't want tattoos, Botox, eyelash extensions, or dumplings on children.
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Yuliya
Polina Boyko Everything is fine in moderation, but some people don't know their limits )
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Hahaha)) I even got as far as my navel)) It was incredibly painful… The funniest part is that there was no point to it anyway, since I didn't even have a proper earring))
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Yuliya
And how we survived ))))
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Maybe the tar helped, or maybe the ants' droppings did. To be honest, I haven't tried any of these myself, oddly enough (there was plenty of other nonsense to deal with).
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Yuliya
My own squeamishness won out. I haven't tried it either, but carbide in a puddle was quite an adventure.
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
I remember how much we loved trying all kinds of apples, plums, and pears when they were green))
The main thing was that everyone enjoyed them, right?))
Then one day we decided to make juice from green apples (I had a juicer at home)) — oh, I still vividly remember that massive bout of diarrhea)).
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Yuliya
One nostalgic evening — the Green Brook was our delicacy.
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Haha! I'm laughing out loud 😂
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Marina Yurova
If I had a daughter, I wouldn't be against it.
At age 13, I got two more ear piercings (holes three and four).
At age 14 I pierced my eyebrow, at 15 my lip, and at 16 my nose — I’ve removed all of them now except the nose piercing.
As a teenager I dyed my hair in different colors — thanks to my mom for letting me experiment and for never scolding me for it.
Now I have six tattoos, Botox for my facial wrinkles, chocolate-colored hair 😁, and I am incredibly happy.
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