Yesterday, as always, my husband was yelling at our child and at me... and in the end he raised his hand against me again. He grabbed the child and tried to take him away, but I was struck on the head. I have never been this shaken before today. I want to leave him. How should I do this properly? Could I consult a lawyer so that with a small child we don't have to shuttle between courts? Divorce and the division of assets will be awful, because, in his view, I haven't earned anything; everything we have is his. He doesn't want to share anything. I told him that we would divorce; he doesn't even read the letter. He thinks that ten years of everything working out will still work, but we have a child. When he threw the one-year-old child, I became very afraid.