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I don't want to share a screenshot, but the chat's been a total mess for two days because of some crazy moms. I'm barely holding back from replying. I don't support them, and I'm not chipping in for a group bouquet of 13 flowers. I can afford to buy a bouquet myself.
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Tanya
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And what do they want from you?
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
ZVYaGINA LENA
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Don't hold back! 😁
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Tanya They don't want anything from me.
They only suggested chipping in.
They were deciding on colors and writing scandalous nonsense.
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Tanya
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Tanya What's bothering you then, if nobody is asking anything of you?
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Nadezhda
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So you hold it in there, and then let it all out here?😁😁
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Anichka
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Our son is planning to buy 51 roses for the first of September!

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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Tanya I can't stand reading nonsense and foolishness; I want to put those 'smart alecks' in their place.
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Anichka Good job!

We had one person complain that they were asked to buy a geography atlas.
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Tanya
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Tanya Set it down. What's the problem?
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Vishenka
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What does the situation have to do with it? 🤦 If they bring you 30 bouquets right now, what will you do with them? It's more practical for everyone to chip in and give one awesome bouquet.
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Anichka It's not a big amount, though. Why stick to principles?
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Anichka
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Anichka Why bother? It's not like the bouquet is appropriate. It'll last a week and then get tossed. Maybe for graduation, but not for the first day of school. Especially since she's such a drama queen.
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Vishenka Not brooms, but bouquets. To put in vases
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Mika
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Vishenka They didn't even talk about the amazing ones
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August 31, 2026, 4:15 PM
Anichka
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Anichka It's not about the amount, I just feel the gift is inappropriate. Plus, there's money in the envelope. I decided on a bouquet for 4k, an autumnal one.
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August 31, 2026, 4:18 PM
Vishenka
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Vishenka Do you have 30 vases at home and enough surfaces? I'm a teacher, but not in a public school, and I've received a maximum of 5 bouquets at once. I was grateful, of course, but arranging them was difficult, so I put them into two out of the five. I can't imagine how to "use up" 30. Any teacher will tell you – one bouquet from the whole class is better.
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August 31, 2026, 4:18 PM
Olesya
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It's not about whether you can, but whether the teacher can haul home 25 bouquets and arrange them. Does she even need that? Or does she just not care?
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August 31, 2026, 4:18 PM
Natalya
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If most people decide to chip in, then we should chip in. Do you think others can't afford a bouquet? It's just that these 30 bouquets will end up in the trash, even on the first day.
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August 31, 2026, 4:18 PM
Mika
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Vishenka No, definitely not 30.
You can combine bouquets into vases.
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August 31, 2026, 4:18 PM
Mika
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Natalya I've never seen it in the trash, you have a wrong perspective.
Some people can't, some people are principled.
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August 31, 2026, 4:21 PM
Mika
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Olesya You don't have to bring everything home. You can decorate your own office and take the rest home.
She's driving, so giving you a ride isn't a problem.
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August 31, 2026, 4:36 PM
Oksana Kornienko
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And that's how nothing gets done because 50% just stay silent even if they don't like something. I say everything if I don't like it, but usually that's not enough, you need other people, and they stay silent.
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August 31, 2026, 4:36 PM
Elena Sharova
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Why all the fuss? We've been doing this for years. We just put out a call in the chat, and almost everyone agrees. A couple of people don't contribute money, and that's fine… We get one nice bouquet from the class and a box of chocolates, and that's it! 20-25 bouquets seem like a hassle to manage, in my opinion…
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August 31, 2026, 4:54 PM
Anna
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I don't see anything wrong with a class bouquet, I'm always "FOR" it.
This year, it actually happened that the class bouquet was already bought, and I bought one for my daughter too (I thought there wouldn't be a combined one).
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August 31, 2026, 4:57 PM
Natasha
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Natalya Who says everyone has to chip in just because most people do?? Most people chip in for us too, but my daughter wants to give a personal bouquet. Just from her.
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August 31, 2026, 5:18 PM
Natasha
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Tanya Doesn't know how 😂 Lacks the brains
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August 31, 2026, 5:21 PM
Tanya
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Tanya And here she's very brave
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August 31, 2026, 5:33 PM
Natasha
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Tanya So, she doesn't know anyone here, but over there, they might give her a hard time.
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August 31, 2026, 5:36 PM
Tanya
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Tanya Everything's the same as always
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August 31, 2026, 5:36 PM
Lyudmila
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Vishenka Don't forget to gift 30 vases right away.
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August 31, 2026, 5:48 PM
Lyubov
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Olesya And they drag them home? In my day, they left them at school. Why would she need them at home?
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August 31, 2026, 5:54 PM
Mika
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Natalya Mine too. He chooses and gives them himself. Once a year is fine
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August 31, 2026, 6:21 PM
Olesya
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Olesya So, 2-3 bouquets are at home, the rest are in the classroom, often in a bucket because there aren't enough vases. My mom worked as a teacher for 30 years.
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August 31, 2026, 7:30 PM
Natalya
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Natalya When the school collects money for a gift, everyone chips in. You can contribute whatever you want on your own.
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August 31, 2026, 9:00 PM
Natasha
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Natalya Which law is this written in?? What's the penalty for breaking this law?
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August 31, 2026, 9:06 PM
Natalya
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Natalya Which laws are you referring to?
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August 31, 2026, 9:15 PM
Natasha
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Natalya because when they chip in for a gift at school, everyone chips in.
I got curious about what law regulates this and what will happen to me now for not chipping in 🤯Will I be fined or jailed now?
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August 31, 2026, 9:15 PM
Natalya
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Natalya There's always a couple of stingy ones in every class 🙌🏻
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August 31, 2026, 9:45 PM
Natasha
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Natalya And what does greed have to do with it? 😂 The child will give a gift personally, one they chose themselves, not from the parent committee. I fully supported my child's choice, and we didn't like the gift from the committee. I don't think it's necessary to spend my own money just to please the committee. Whoever wanted to chip in bought a group gift (by the way, there are only 13 of them out of 28), the rest are giving personal gifts.
And please answer my questions. What law regulates your words?
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August 31, 2026, 10:33 PM
Lyubov
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Olesya Yes, yes, I remember buckets too
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September 1, 2026, 7:42 AM
Olesya
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Olesya Well, because there's nowhere special to put it, and the kids would break the vase anyway
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September 1, 2026, 7:42 AM
Lyubov
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Olesya Back then, nobody bought bouquets either. We'd pick some flowers from home and go.
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September 1, 2026, 9:42 AM

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