My son is 16. Yesterday, he asked for the first time if he could sleep over at a friend's house. The…

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My son is 16. Yesterday, he asked for the first time if he could sleep over at a friend's house. They went to bed at 3 AM, and today they woke up around 1 or 2 PM and went out. Now he's calling again asking if he can stay for a second night. Would you let him? This is his first sleepover, and I don't know the boy personally, nor his parents. He's the same age.
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Anita
Probably not
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Liana
My rule is: all sleepovers are at our place. I don't let them go anywhere else.
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Mariya
Letting my son go, but I always knew who he was staying with
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Iglova Viktoriya
Not for the second one, though.
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Dayyana
Mariya I don't know the guy personally, or his family. My son went and gave the full address yesterday.
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Dayyana
Iglova Viktoriya That's what I think too
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Yuliya
Not the second one, we went for a walk and that's enough
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Galya
My son stayed over at his best friend's last year, he even spent the whole May holidays there! But I'm also friends with his parents, so I let him go.
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Dayyana
Yuliya I also think so, I fully support you
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Suleymenova Aida
A second one is just too much.
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Dayyana
Galya Yeah, this is a slightly different situation now.
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Tatyana Rubtsova
More likely yes, let him walk around, especially since he's not so little anymore.
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Irina
I can't even leave her alone for one minute. We went for a walk and then went our separate ways, we're not homeless.
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Kristina
I have sleepovers with people I know
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Dayyana
Tatyana Rubtsova Well, I'm just thinking, we went for a walk, it's not like we do it every night. Thanks for your opinion! ♥️
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Yuliya
Yuliya Especially since you don't know their friends and family. I often stayed over at friends' places and they stayed at mine, but my parents knew and they'd call each other.
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Nadezhda
A classmate friend came to visit us at the dacha… that’s one thing.
But in the city, they hang out until 10 PM and go home. They aren’t homeless.
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Iglova Viktoriya
Iglova Viktoriya Lessons, need help around the house. And you've already walked enough
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