So many girls are so difficult and unpleasant – friends' kids, acquaintances' kids, even my son's cl…

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So many girls are so difficult and unpleasant – friends' kids, acquaintances' kids, even my son's classmates. They're so young, but already so... You'd think girls would be all about sweetness, but some are really brutes! They push, they call names, they hit the boys with their backpacks. Where does all this come from? My friend's daughter is a real monster. Not a trace of sweetness. Her son just avoids her. She fights, throws sand at people's heads and eyes – seriously, a little devil. And it's specifically her, because her calmer sister is pretty normal, totally different. I dreamed of having a daughter, but I have a son, and he's so far from that kind of behavior. I've seen this bad behavior from girls many times, whose moms are convinced their little angels are incapable of such things.
Или что-то вроде этого. Помню, в детстве в Москве покупали такие леденцы от кашля для моей племянниц…
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Komarova Elena
Oh yes, girls are little monsters, and boys are sweet little angels.
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Oksana
Mine rarely throws tantrums, she's easygoing and loves to be hugged, kissed, and petted… she wakes up in the morning and comes for cuddles...
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Tanya
Oh, I have a little dinosaur. But she's been like this since she was a baby. Very feisty, loves her toy gun and balls. Never really played with dolls. But at the same time, she's very affectionate, loving, and emotional. In kindergarten, she's practically a gem. She bosses her brother around big time. She's got the makings of either a very strict teacher or the CEO of a major holding company. She's never been babied (except by her brother. He gives in to her way too often). If anything, she gets into more trouble for her antics.
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Natalya
Komarova Elena Looks like you have a mischievous girl too 🤣
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Natalya
Tanya And your son is calm in contrast? And how are you finding it with her? Is it difficult?
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Olga
My darlings. We have both boys and girls in our family. The youngest is feisty, with tons of energy. With boys, it's more complicated – they're boys
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Komarova Elena
Komarova Elena Sure, two
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Oksana
Mine is still little, but you can already tell she has a personality 😁
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Aleksandra
My firstborn is still an angel.
The second was an angel until the third was born. But her tantrums and aggression are only at home. In public, she's the same angel. As soon as we get home, she turns into a devil and a screamer.
The third is also an angel outside the house.
But at home, these two little angels (the second and third) fight and scream so much that I just want to smack them.
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Olga
Olga My oldest is going through a rough patch with puberty, the middle one is doing okay, but they have a specialized school which takes up a lot of time and leaves little free time.
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Efremova Evgeniya
My son is calm, but my daughter is a little bandit. I joke that if she brings home a daughter-in-law like her, I'll hang myself! She's just a little monkey. Her mother-in-law used to call her a walking disaster when she was little. But she's fun, too, with the things she blurts out. She's only sweet with people she chooses.
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Yulya
And mine complains about the boys every day, they push and fight, thankfully amongst themselves. But the really rowdy ones might even pick on the girls. Because of this, she can't stand boys! I'm sensitive, emotional, easily offended, and sometimes a bit stubborn. All her friends are good girls, and my friends' and acquaintances' kids are also great girls. I don't know where you got the idea to lump them all together.
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Tanya
Tanya Yes. My son has a golden personality. Honestly, she's difficult. She demands a lot of attention and is jealous. But still, she's amazing. Sometimes she drives me so crazy that I could bang my head against the wall. And ten minutes later, she's running around, chirping, telling me something interesting, and it's impossible to be mad at her anymore. With her, it's like in a joke: if she's in a good mood, the whole family can breathe. But if she's in a bad mood, everyone's screwed.
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Larisa
Komarova Elena You read my mind. Here comes the monster-in-law.
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Natalya
Oksana 😃🙊, and how is your son? )
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Shashkova Anna
Bad, bad! May your son always live with you :) Don't give him up to those harpies!
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Natalya
Oksana Mine is the same :) especially before bedtime.
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Lyali
There are naughty boys and girls, I worked as a caregiver and saw all kinds of kids.
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Natalya
Aleksandra My friend's kids are like that, and outside it's a disaster, plus at home two sisters fight 6 days a week. For me, that sounds like hell.
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Natalya
Efremova Evgeniya Wow! 😃😃😃🙊
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Natalya
Yulya I haven't met everyone, of course, but so many are unpleasant…
Mine isn't a troublemaker; he's calm, the type who still digs in the sand, collects sticks, and picks a flower to give to me. He doesn't like bullies himself, and almost everyone in his class is a bully, so he only has one friend in class who is also calm.
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Yulya
Yulya There was only one boy like that in our class, and he left. We could have had a normal friendship with him.
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Natalya
Shashkova Anna Why are you writing this to me? My child isn't a troublemaker, he actually doesn't like kids like that, and most kids are like that, both boys and girls.
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Natalya
She was talking about hers, right? 😃
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Agapitova Anya
The question isn't clear. Yes, she was talking about her daughter. She mentioned that her daughter, you know, puts on makeup, dresses like an adult, and basically does whatever she wants. But this mom is sure that all girls are like that.
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Mariya Glebova
Tanya Same here. My son would sell his soul to make her happy. When she coos at him, he jumps out of his skin trying to please her. But when she's on a rampage, there's no room for anyone else. Where does she get that wild energy to keep the whole farm in fear 😂
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Tanya
Tanya Oh, I don't know. Both my husband and I are calm people. I suspect my father-in-law. He has a difficult, "fighting" personality. Although, he loves her more than all his other grandkids from day one, even though he scolds her more too 😁. Apparently, he senses something special.
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Mariya Glebova
Tanya I wouldn't say my husband and I are calm people; our whole family is a bit quirky 🙈 but our daughter is the spitting image of her mother-in-law. She's all emotion and the center of her own universe. When she gets going, she doesn't see anyone or anything. My husband's brother used to say his mom was like a "sizzling piece of fat in a pan" – so accurate, that's her!))
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Tanya
Tanya 🤣🤣🤣 Great comparison. Ours is losing her boundaries too. We have to be firm about it.
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Oksana
Oksana and before bed too)
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