I'm the one who broke up with him. During this time, we learned to communicate and be civil. I felt…

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I'm the one who broke up with him. During this time, we learned to communicate and be civil. I felt at ease knowing he was still around in my life. And now he's started acting really strange. He says he needs to leave in October, and if anything happens, a letter with all the information will be sent to me. And I got scared. What if he's really not going to be in my life anymore. How will the girls be without their dad. Sometimes I feel resentful for us, who once loved each other. We were inseparable, a team. And it's sad that we destroyed our life together. And now there's this fear, what if...
А есть ли семьи, где дети помогают мамам, где общение нормальное? Где муж любит и заботится о жене.… Hi! Yesterday I was so angry and hysterical, I felt like killing everyone. I haven't been like this…
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Kristina
It's all in God's hands
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Olka
What if? What if a brick falls on my head?
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Anzhela
Olka He might hide that he's sick.
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Marina
Maybe he signed a contract behind the scenes. In any case, you didn't break up for no reason. Whatever is meant to be will be. It's bad that you're still emotionally dependent on him and need him to be somewhere in your life. It's not even the girls who need this, but you. When I broke up with my first husband, I didn't need his presence in my life at all. The children don't remember him either. Their second husband gives them enough attention as a father.
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natalya
That sounds a bit dramatic… Just ask him directly where he's going. Maybe you can talk him out of it 🤷️
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natalya
Marina If the biological father is reasonable and wants to communicate with the children, then he has the right to do so. The children will love him, and they will need him. Your example isn't indicative here 🤷️ (for instance, my daughter communicates very well with her father, even though we separated when she was 1.5 years old)
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Marina
Marina Ours also flutters around to chat sometimes. When the rooster crows in his butt. But his departure will be more beneficial for the children and we really hope so) because he serves in the police
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Anzhela
natalya He's not talking. Unlikely to be in the special military operation. He didn't serve, and I doubt he decided to play the hero. Maybe he got sick and is staying quiet. Or perhaps he's just overthinking things, that happens too. It's just that in this situation, I feel sorry for the kids. They haven't even recovered from the divorce yet. And now dad is planning to go to the other side.
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natalya
natalya Well, maybe it'll be okay 🙄
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natalya
Marina What are the benefits for the kids? The payments?
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Marina
Marina Admission Benefits
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Marina
Marina Payments are due to those who have died. No one wishes death upon him, but attending there would grant a certificate of participation and priority enrollment in universities.
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Natali
manipulates
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