The doctor is writing the wrong things, damn it. I listed the words he says: mama, papa, baba, dedKi…

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The doctor is writing the wrong things, damn it. I listed the words he says: mama, papa, baba, dedKi and Te (brothers Kirill, Artem), kisa, dai, na, posli, uydi, da, nyet (nods), up (soup), asha (kasha), pisya, ida (food). Also: obasya (doggy), li (elevator), poa (bye). She wrote down 3 words, I think, the ones she heard: mama, uydi (when they measured his head and chest), and poa (when he waved and said "I'm tired" 😁). They didn't write that the baby eats by himself (they asked), but they attributed breastfeeding. I've been formula feeding since birth. (new doctor or substitute) - I'm not okay with this. Write it as it is, why are you given information, you idiot.
На день рождения младшему, конечно, будет один цезарь, а вот второй не знаю, какой сделать. Хочу пор…
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Biryuk Svetlana
I don't understand either
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Lyubanya
Our pediatrician just writes that the development is within the normal physiological range. We're being monitored in the follow-up care department.
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Ekaterina
I never even read what's written in the chart. And she has a line out the door, plus probably some extra papers to fill out besides the appointment, and she's going to write down every word for you. Well, you're certainly something else!)
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Olchik
Ekaterina Actually yes, they write every word, not just making stuff up
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Lyubanya
Lyubanya Lots of people, come to your next appointment and ask them to fix it. I don't see any problems.
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Olchik
Ekaterina My doctor wrote it every time, and the narrow ones too
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Ekaterina
Ekaterina If she's going to send her "pooh" and "pee-pee" messages to everyone, there won't be enough appointments for all of them.
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Olchik
Ekaterina Are you kidding me? They write out all the words. The neurologist wrote it like that too. What about breastfeeding, if I haven't nursed for even a day?
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Olchik
Lyubanya I see problems, but honestly, I'll write what I want. What's the point of saying anything then? I can just scribble whatever comes to mind.
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Yuliya
Lyubanya Someone once messaged me saying I should feed my baby formula. But I was breastfeeding! I was so surprised.
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Olchik
Ekaterina Why ask when she'll just write what she wants anyway?
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Ekaterina
Ekaterina I don't know what kind of miracle doctor you had who detailed every sound for you. Our doctors just write that development is age-appropriate; they don't detail any 'qi' or 'te'. I guess I was mistaken about breastfeeding. Besides, what role does it play later on? You know how you're feeding your baby.
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Olchik
Lyubanya For me, it's the opposite, my goal is to ask everything and write it in my own way.
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Lyubanya
Ekaterina A neurologist writes because they're assessing neurological status. A pediatrician just evaluates development as normal/delayed; they aren't required to write down every single word during the appointment.
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Olchik
Ekaterina Oh no, I'm telling you again, my daughter wrote this, scribbled three words and attributed breastfeeding to me.
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Lyubanya
Ekaterina Go to yours, what's the problem?
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Olchik
Ekaterina I don't give a damn about her three words if my baby talks and does more, and she writes whatever she wants. The goal is to ask.
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Olchik
Ekaterina You're doing so great! She's either on sick leave or vacation (they keep replacing each other).
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Ekaterina
Ekaterina OMG 🤣 I wish I had your problems. You can write all your words in a "Our Baby" album, why does the pediatrician need them in the chart?
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firuza manafova
Well, if the doctor wrote down every word a child knows, the appointment would take an hour 😅 The chart records key developmental milestones, not a full vocabulary. About the formula feeding – maybe they made a mistake, it happens to everyone. But getting upset that the document doesn't list 20 words seems excessive to me. The main thing is that you know your son's real progress, and the chart is just a formal report for statistics
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Lyubanya
Ekaterina Did you know your baby knows more? What else is coming? The doctor will get back from sick leave and fix it at the next appointment.
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Olchik
firuza manafova They used to write down every word, so why are they asking now and writing their own? I say he eats by himself (spoon, fork), but they write that he's fed pureed food. They came up with their own words, not what I said. The goal is to ask.
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Olchik
Ekaterina And that's exactly why, I need everything to be clear. And I'll say this, they later look at the child's development. You're kind of strange.
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Olchik
Ekaterina And what does that have to do with me? I need things to be clear, not just made up as you go along.
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Ekaterina
Ekaterina If the baby is developing normally, it's obvious, nobody's going to reread what words were written on October 6, 2026.
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firuza manafova
firuza manafova Well, doctors don't always ask questions to record every single word. They listen to your answer to assess development. If there are few words, they'll refer you to a specialist. If there are many, they'll just note that it's normal. Imagine: my daughter is almost 2, and we have an appointment soon. She already has countless words. Should the pediatrician write down the whole dictionary? They make a general note. The goal of the survey is diagnosis, not a linguistic census. It's the same with the spoon and fork: they heard your answer 'eats by myself,' drew a conclusion about self-care skills, and made the appropriate note in the chart. They don't need a transcript of your words or actions; they need the clinical picture. That's it.
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Olchik
firuza manafova Why are you trying to impose your way on me? If she doesn't even write my baby's words, why does she minimize them? Plus, why ask if he eats on his own or not, and write her own goal? If I'm not breastfeeding, she writes her own thing and asks about formula in seconds. What's the point of all this?
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Olchik
Ekaterina Why wouldn't it happen? Of course it will! They write and confirm, but in the end, it's all just nonsense.
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firuza manafova
firuza manafova Please re-read my last comment carefully – it already answers all your questions. The survey's goal isn't to rewrite three pages about your child's development for you, but to assess their condition according to standards. The doctor asks 'Do they eat on their own?' to tick a box in the record, not to transcribe your words. I've already explained this to you.
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Olchik
Ekaterina You write nonsense at work too, then you have to explain that you're not an idiot.
I got the gist of what you're saying.
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Olchik
In what way? What are they writing incorrectly? Do you also work where you're told to write black, but you write white?
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Olchik
Ekaterina It doesn't change anything
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firuza manafova
firuza manafova And who told you that your idea of "right" is the ultimate truth? Why did you decide that your version is the only correct one? What seems like nonsense to you might be a standard formulation according to regulations.
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Olchik
firuza manafova Is the regulation unclear? You told me one thing in Russian, but wrote another. Why?
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firuza manafova
firuza manafova I'm not going to repeat myself for the third time. Please read my previous comments carefully before asking the same questions again. If information has been given twice and ignored, it's no longer a question but a demonstration of unwillingness to understand. I won't repeat myself anymore.
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Alesya
Go ahead and pay, what's the big deal? What's so great about the public clinic anyway? People go there for free and then act all entitled. Nobody's going to coddle you there.
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Olchik
Alesya 😁😁😁 lol

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Alesya
Alesya Okay, I understand your vocabulary. You don't need to continue.
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Olchik
LOL😁 I'm talking about apples and oranges.
If the doctor writes nonsense, it's not the point, and it turned out she was right, oh well, who cares anymore 😁
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Kristina
My mom's husband was also a 'character.' She went to the doctor complaining of heart palpitations. The record stated her complaint as: pain in her left heel 🤦️ Her husband later went with her to sort things out.
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Olchik
Alesya Sure, I can stop if you didn't get the point.
Everything is black and white for you.

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Kristina
Why is the author to blame if the doctor provides incorrect information in a medical document?
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Alesya
Alesya I get it. It's just that pediatricians don't have time to write 3-page reports, and who needs that when a child is developing normally? Soon there will be no one left to work in public clinics, and you're getting hung up on a trifle. Soon everything will only be treatable with payment. In our clinic, out of 20 pediatricians, only 3 are working. Probably because of the management's great attitude, patients, and big salaries, everyone scattered. And the rest will leave soon too
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Inga
Once, for a simple runny nose, they wrote 'flu' in my child's chart, with a temperature of 38+, cough, etc. When I asked why they wrote that, the answer was mind-blowing: 'Don't pay attention, it's just for the record 🫣'. P.S. The doctor wasn't our usual one; she was on sick leave.
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Radyno Aleksandra
Yes, unfortunately, that happens. I had that with my therapist. It happened exactly three times. All three times were about 3 years apart. Naturally, my blood pressure was different at each appointment. The result: I went to her healthy and left with autonomic dysfunction. Her argument: 'Well, your blood pressure fluctuates!'
As for the kids. I looked at my older kids' charts – their first year of life is described in great detail. What they ate, drank, said.
I would report a doctor like yours. First to the head of the department, then to the insurance company.
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Gasanova Aygyun
I also opened my older son's chart once and was shocked. Apparently, he could talk (when he wasn't talking), knew shapes, counted to 10, recited Yesenin by heart… that I was breastfeeding, that there were no complaints (apparently I just came to see her)… and so on. I had a good laugh.
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Gasanova Aygyun
Gasanova Aygyun And every time I went for my scheduled prenatal appointment at the women's clinic, they wrote that I had a threatened miscarriage and recommended hospitalization. Even though I had no complaints or reasons for it, everything was normal
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Alena Bazhanova
Alesya I go to the clinic, but I pay the doctor for every visit, and yet, both times they wrote in my chart that we're breastfeeding, even though my kids have never seen breast milk before.
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