So, I've had a lot of miscarriages before 12 weeks, plus a complete uterine duplication. I have a hi…

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So, I've had a lot of miscarriages before 12 weeks, plus a complete uterine duplication. I have a history of habitual miscarriage and IC (incompetent cervix). My first baby arrived at 32 weeks, the second at 36, but at 20 weeks, I had a lateral rupture of the amniotic sac with leakage, and they placed a pessary. During my second pregnancy, my AST and ALT levels were extremely high, and they wanted to induce labor at 31 weeks, but everything stabilized. I have no uterine scarring, and all my births were natural. I'm 36 now, and I can only afford to have another child at 38, not sooner. The good doctors in town only take private patients; at the local women's health clinic, there's one doctor for every 70,000 people. There are no maternity hospitals, the nearest one is 150 km away, and there's no emergency care either. My husband wants a third child, but I'm not sure. Would you take the risk given these circumstances?
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Gulya
I don't want to take even smaller risks. Just to erase a lot of time from my life with no guarantee that a child will even be possible. It's not for me. But it's very individual.
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Natalya
No
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Elena
I wouldn't.
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elena
That's what I'm afraid of
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yuliya yakubova
Noooo, so many risks...
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dzhuletta
no
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Oksana
No. Your pregnancies are too complicated.
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Yulya
I probably wouldn't. I'd live and enjoy life and raise my 2 kids.
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elena
He's not insisting, he just wants it. No pressure. He's okay with a 'no'.
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FoXy
If you've had complicated pregnancies before, I wouldn't risk it. Think about the children you already have, it's not worth it. Be kind to yourself and your health. ❤️
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elena
Yulya Yes, I'm surprised they both turned out alive and healthy. But we have a uterus like this, it's hereditary on the female side.
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elena
I definitely don't want that. I'd rather we think about a nursery.
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