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What's better: leave her at after-school care (they just sit in an office and play on their phones a…

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What's better: leave her at after-school care (they just sit in an office and play on their phones all day) or have her come home after lessons? Obviously, someone will escort her. We have cameras at home, and she's generally independent: she can heat up food and do her homework. We don't do after-school clubs at school; we take her elsewhere. But I'm scared she might choke being home alone, or lose her apartment keys.
Кто знает, как это делать? В смысле, как наливать я знаю, но какие есть секреты, чтобы не перемешало…
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Anita
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at after-school care
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October 9, 2026, 2:09 PM
Anna
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Talk to your daughter about it. Maybe she won't want to stay home alone and will be scared, and the issue will resolve itself. You could then leave her in after-school care. Or, on the contrary, she's an independent young lady and will want to go home after school. There's no single right answer; you need to see what works for your child.
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October 9, 2026, 2:09 PM
Irina
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Anna She's for staying home.
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October 9, 2026, 2:09 PM
Tatyana
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Ours was sitting, although not very independently
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October 9, 2026, 2:12 PM
Yuliya
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After-school care is better. She's still little. Besides choking, a lot of other things could happen. At school, they're at least supervised. Mine only started walking home from school this year. And even then, she went a couple of times, then felt grown-up and started doing her own thing. Sometimes she'd bring someone home, sometimes she'd go walk someone home, or go out without asking. Nope, so now she hangs out at school again.
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October 9, 2026, 2:15 PM
ZVYaGINA LENA
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Better at home
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October 9, 2026, 2:18 PM
Zavatskaya Anya
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About choking, I have a phobia about that too, for some reason.
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October 9, 2026, 2:24 PM
Chudaeva Elena
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Attach the key to your backpack with a string and put it in a small pocket. That way, she definitely won't lose it. We had the same useless after-school program; mine never stayed. She's been home alone since first grade. In your case, the escort could walk the child to the door and make sure she locks it. We met her ourselves since we work close to home.
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October 9, 2026, 2:48 PM
Irina
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Zavatskaya Anya I have many options 🤪
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October 9, 2026, 3:09 PM
Irina
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Yuliya That's also on my mind, that they'll know she's home alone. And visitors? Definitely not!!
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October 9, 2026, 3:09 PM
Irina
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Tatyana Is he staying home alone now too?
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October 9, 2026, 3:09 PM
Anna
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Everyone's yelling about school ending, and my head is already spinning. Mine is better off at home, resting from school. I used to pack his food in a container or plate and put it in the fridge. He'd come home, heat it up, and eat. Then he'd rest and do his homework.
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October 9, 2026, 3:42 PM
Bizyukina Yuliya
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Zavatskaya Anya I get that too, he chokes quite often 🥺
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October 9, 2026, 4:03 PM
Irina
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Anna From the first grade?
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October 9, 2026, 4:36 PM
Anna
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Anna Yes, from the first one. And it's a 15-minute walk, not close.
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October 9, 2026, 4:36 PM
Irina
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Anna Did he walk by himself right away?
We have a school nearby and in general, a lot of people go back in the morning, it's like a stream. Well, I can take him in the morning.
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October 9, 2026, 4:42 PM
Anna
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Anna Yes, he went with his friends by himself. But before that, he had already walked alone and wasn't afraid
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October 9, 2026, 4:42 PM

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