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It hurts him every time he poops, and there's blood 😭 Can you give me some advice? We saw a surgeon…

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It hurts him every time he poops, and there's blood 😭 Can you give me some advice? We saw a surgeon, but he just told us to go to a pediatrician. Well, the pediatrician ended up saying to just watch his diet and give him more plant-based foods to soften his stool and reduce the pain. But they didn't offer any useful advice beyond diet. I'm worried, my baby is so young and already struggling with bowel movements. It hurts when he poops, there's always blood, and the area around the opening is red 🤬😭 What can you suggest? Maybe some suppositories or ointment for babies?
Forgot to add: Has anyone had a fever after the removal? Mine was 99.5°F (37.5°C) two hours ago, and…
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Tanya
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Have you gotten her feeding sorted out? Is her stool normal or hard?
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October 10, 2026, 12:36 PM
Natalya
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You were told correctly that you need to establish a good diet
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October 10, 2026, 12:36 PM
Prostota
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Natalya So we got it sorted, took the meds along with stomach medicine too.
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October 10, 2026, 12:36 PM
Prostota
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Tanya We've got his feeding sorted and his stool is soft, but he's still in pain when he poops, so he's scared.
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October 10, 2026, 12:36 PM
Prostota
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What does a psychiatrist have to do with a baby's stool problems?
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October 10, 2026, 12:36 PM
Tanya
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Tanya Then go to another surgeon. Perhaps a fecal impaction has already formed.
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October 10, 2026, 12:39 PM
Marina
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Go see a gastroenterologist. Once your diet is sorted out and your bowel movements regulate, everything will heal.
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October 10, 2026, 12:39 PM
Mariya Glebova
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A child should try to poop every day. I trained mine from infancy to go every morning because constipation is a common problem for kids, often because they hold it in, like at daycare, leading to pain and fear. It's important to explain that holding it in is not good and to teach them to go in the morning. And of course, diet. I like the effect of amaranth; it always helps with loosening things up.
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October 10, 2026, 12:39 PM
Katya
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I take psyllium for better digestion, but! you need to drink it with a glass of water and dissolve it in a glass of water. It's fiber. Normase will help soften your stool. It's a laxative that isn't habit-forming and is even safe for pregnant women.
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October 10, 2026, 12:42 PM
Katya
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If you have anxiety, it can sometimes lead to Irritable Bowel Syndrome. That's what always caused me problems with my bowel movements.
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October 10, 2026, 12:42 PM
Katya
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Katya And generally, when taking psyllium, you need to drink a lot of water, otherwise, it will have the opposite effect.
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October 10, 2026, 12:42 PM
yuliya yakubova
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You might need a psychologist, as your child is already showing fear. It might be worth visiting a proctologist, as there could be a fissure or even an internal hemorrhoid.
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October 10, 2026, 12:45 PM
Kristina
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Drink more water. It helps me with constipation. Glycerin suppositories are cheap and effective! There's a smaller dosage for kids. They're tiny. Give it a try. I've been using glycerin my whole life. I have trouble going to the bathroom from time to time too.
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October 10, 2026, 12:48 PM
Asya
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You need to treat the crack, or it'll become chronic in 1-2 months. I'm using Relief suppositories, Relief Filipin cream, chamomile baths, and sea buckthorn suppositories. It gets better in a couple of days, but I continue treatment for about 5 days. For softening stool quickly, take Duphalac or something similar. Maybe some of these are safe for kids?
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October 10, 2026, 1:00 PM
Suhareva Olga
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Try giving kefir with flax seeds at night, so they can chew on them.
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October 10, 2026, 1:06 PM
Prostota
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Mariya Glebova Mine poops every day naturally
He's just scared because of these issues
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October 10, 2026, 1:39 PM
Prostota
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He has some redness around the opening and a little inside.
Sorry for the details.
The surgeon opened the entrance a bit,
and it looked red in there.
But still, he sent us to the pediatrician.
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October 10, 2026, 1:42 PM
Prostota
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Tanya Are you referring to constipation, like a "stone"?
If so, no constipation here.
My son has a bowel movement every day.
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October 10, 2026, 1:42 PM
Tanya
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Tanya Not exactly. It can happen after chronic constipation. Does your child have smearing issues?
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October 10, 2026, 1:54 PM
Prostota
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Tanya It was kind of like constipation. The baby went to the toilet often, and it came out hard and with difficulty, sorry for the details.
There was no and still is no smearing.
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October 10, 2026, 2:13 PM
Tanya
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Tanya That's already good. We need to figure out if there are cracks (and there are, if there's still bleeding). Then, prescribe treatment. If there's fear, that needs to be addressed too.
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October 10, 2026, 2:19 PM
Prostota
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Tanya We're moving to another city soon.
I want to find a good doctor for him there.
Let's see what they say.
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October 10, 2026, 2:19 PM
Tanya
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Tanya Great! And read up on psychological constipation in children.
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October 10, 2026, 2:19 PM
liliya kirasirova
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Kristina I cut adult suppositories into 4 pieces lengthwise. I bought some children's ones once and they crumbled, no idea why, maybe they were stored incorrectly. I had to cut an adult one, and it's much more convenient this way and uses less.
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October 10, 2026, 3:43 PM
liliya kirasirova
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Kristina What do you mean? I use them too, not just for the kids. And the thinner ones are better, they don't come out right away with the first push like the bigger ones.
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October 10, 2026, 3:46 PM

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