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It felt so good being pregnant at 22... My mind was so carefree, no bad thoughts 💭🤪 But at 30, eve…

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It felt so good being pregnant at 22... My mind was so carefree, no bad thoughts 💭🤪 But at 30, everything is different. So many fears: about different syndromes, about labor, especially since I now have a hematoma that's bleeding and the placenta is covering the cervix... 🙈 Oh, girls, I've fallen into such a funk... The screening is in 2 weeks, and I'm starting to panic 😭
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Elena
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I had no bad thoughts at 22 or 35. But at 27, the women's clinic really messed with my head with the Down syndrome screening. They saw it, and that was it.
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October 16, 2026, 7:48 AM
Elizaveta
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At 22, my first pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage, so my rose-tinted glasses came off early. I learned so much and was scared right up until delivery. And now, my head is even more full of worries 😅
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October 16, 2026, 7:48 AM
SSVETIK
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Elena I'm a worrier, so it's especially hard for me 😢
But generally, I stroke my belly and say that Mom will do everything to be a good home, just grow healthy 😭
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October 16, 2026, 7:48 AM
SSVETIK
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Elizaveta Life is tough for women 😅
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October 16, 2026, 7:48 AM
Tanya
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There's no need to panic. Stay positive. You're under a doctor's care. Everything will be okay.
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October 16, 2026, 7:57 AM
Yuliya
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It's not the age that matters, but the problems. If you had had bleeding at 22, you probably wouldn't have been calm and happy either.
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October 16, 2026, 8:01 AM
Yuliya Zhukova
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I totally get you!)) Although my first pregnancy was much harder, with a cervical obstruction and constant bed rest, it still felt easier, like you said – "a bit flighty." Now, at 32, my second pregnancy feels different, with more fears, worries, and thoughts 🙈
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October 16, 2026, 8:06 AM
SSVETIK
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Yuliya Zhukova Yes, yes, yes)) Wishing you a smooth and on-time delivery! 🙏
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October 16, 2026, 8:12 AM
Tatyana K
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I don't know... I think it's not about age, but about experience.
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October 16, 2026, 8:12 AM
SSVETIK
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Yuliya I had a threatened miscarriage in my first pregnancy too, it just felt a bit easier though
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October 16, 2026, 8:12 AM
SSVETIK
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Tanya Getting in the zone and believing 🤞
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October 16, 2026, 8:12 AM
SSVETIK
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Tatyana K What does experience have to do with it? In both my first and second pregnancies, there was a threat, but in the first one, it felt like everything wasn't as serious.
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October 16, 2026, 8:15 AM
Tatyana K
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Tatyana K Because we're facing this for the first time, everything is still new and not yet complicated by scary stories.
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October 16, 2026, 8:24 AM
Yuliya Zhukova
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Yuliya Zhukova Thank you so much! Wishing you a smooth pregnancy and delivery too ❤️🌹
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October 16, 2026, 8:30 AM
Lyali
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Yeah, when I was 20, it was much easier for me, mentally and physically, than in my 30s. Even though both births went fine)
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October 16, 2026, 8:30 AM
Marina
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Tatyana K It wasn't that serious because you didn't know what could happen: a missed miscarriage, a spontaneous miscarriage, or a late-term loss. We thought pathologies only depended on age. It was just naivety and ignorance, that's all.
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October 16, 2026, 8:33 AM
Tanya
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Tanya God willing. Wishing you a smooth pregnancy
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October 16, 2026, 8:33 AM
SSVETIK
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Tatyana K Well, I knew about late-term losses, so don't say I don't know about the bad stuff at all :)
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October 16, 2026, 8:36 AM
SSVETIK
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Tatyana K Yeah, when you think about it, there's a lot that's still unknown, both before and after birth.
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October 16, 2026, 8:36 AM
SSVETIK
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Tanya Thank you! And to you too 🌸
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October 16, 2026, 8:36 AM
SSVETIK
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At what age do you think is best to have your first child?
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October 16, 2026, 8:39 AM
SSVETIK
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Lyali It's getting harder for me too, for now)
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October 16, 2026, 8:39 AM
SSVETIK
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Yuliya Zhukova Thank you so much 🙏
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October 16, 2026, 8:39 AM
Tatyana
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Age isn't really a factor… but yeah, it was physically easier for me at 21 than at 31.
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October 16, 2026, 8:39 AM
Marina
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For me, the minimum is 24-25. It's about conscious parenting and having a stable foundation with a job and education.
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October 16, 2026, 8:42 AM
Tatyana K
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Tatyana K Do you really need to study all that? There are a million different scenarios, both good and not so good. Are you going to study everything just to add to your anxiety? What happens with you will be just one in a billion. Why would you need extra information? Where do you plan to use it?
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October 16, 2026, 8:42 AM
Elena
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I had 2 pregnancies at 30 and 33 years old. I didn't have any scary thoughts; it doesn't depend on age. I remember sitting at the antenatal clinic with girls around 20, maybe, discussing diagnoses, and I thought, 'Good Lord, where do you get this stuff?'
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October 16, 2026, 8:45 AM
SSVETIK
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Elena The internet is amazing 🫠
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October 16, 2026, 8:48 AM
SSVETIK
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Tatyana Well, there you go)
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October 16, 2026, 8:48 AM
SSVETIK
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Tatyana K I'm not saying I'll study all of this
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October 16, 2026, 8:48 AM
Elena
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Elena It is)
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October 16, 2026, 8:48 AM
Tanya
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Tanya thank you🧡
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October 16, 2026, 8:51 AM
Sysoeva Mariya
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it's not because of age, I was just as calm at 29 as I was at 39
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October 16, 2026, 8:51 AM
SSVETIK
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Sysoeva Mariya I'm just saying, it's harder for anxious moms 🤪
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October 16, 2026, 8:51 AM

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