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She likes this guy, and it doesn't matter to her at all if he's married or not; it's just a crush. S…

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She likes this guy, and it doesn't matter to her at all if he's married or not; it's just a crush. She's not planning on leaving her family, she just wants casual encounters with no strings attached. On Friday, I was sitting with a colleague, and we were discussing this: she thinks any man would be up for free sex offered by a woman (no need to pay for anything, no effort to win her over). I'm not so sure, though. Maybe any man would consider the option of such encounters (as long as there's no drama or telling his wife), but few would actually agree. What do you think?
Мы живём с мужчиной вместе и у нас есть общий ребёнок. Его ребёнок 12 лет хочет жить с нами, а мама…
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Elina
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You can think whatever you want, but facts are needed. The thing is, no one's life can be controlled 24/7/365. You could conduct a social survey, but people might lie.
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October 18, 2026, 7:27 AM
Evgeniya
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Does the baby's dad regret messing everything up?
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October 18, 2026, 7:27 AM
Marina
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He regrets it 100%. He won't show it, but recently he caught me near the store, saying he was just passing by, having just returned from a 3-week business trip, and was at a military training exercise. To give you an idea, he's rarely in town, so it's hard for us to run into each other by chance. We hadn't seen each other since the last court hearing in April. And then, surprise... he couldn't let me go for an hour, talking about work, general life stuff, the kids, mutual acquaintances, and so on, in a loop. And I just needed to talk about refinancing the mortgage into my name. I saw him looking at my hand with the ring, and I could tell he was nervous. I thought, 'Why aren't you going to your girlfriend, whom you love, after your business trip?' She lives in another town. You could have talked to her there if you wanted to vent. Everyone we know has turned their backs on him. Only one godparent remains, who is also divorced and has no chance of finding a decent woman.
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October 18, 2026, 7:30 AM
Evgeniya
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And it's good that he regrets it. You'd have to be a complete idiot to let a woman like you go. Let him bite his elbows 🤣 And your second husband is great, he took you right back, so he wouldn't miss out 💃🎉
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October 18, 2026, 7:30 AM
Marina
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Thank you for your kind words. He's really not foolish at all, you know? Even in difficult life moments and decisions. Even though he's 7 years younger, he's very wise and responsible. I feel like I have his back. In my previous marriage, I was all alone. There was no sense of family, support, protection, or help. If I had met him earlier, 1000%, I would have divorced immediately. The contrast is colossal.
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October 18, 2026, 7:36 AM
Lukinskaya Anna
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I'm sure my husband would never agree. He's such a grump.
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October 18, 2026, 7:39 AM
Katya
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I don't know about husbands, but my dad loved my mom so much that I'm absolutely sure he would have refused. And he actually had an offer from a woman like that. He told me himself, and she even knew my mom; they were friends… At first, she was dating a guy who moved to Germany with his family, but he'd visit sometimes, and that's when they'd see each other. When he dumped her, she tried to get close to my dad in various ways a few times. In the end, he told my mom everything, and they stopped talking altogether. Mom's been gone for 4 years, and Dad still wears his wedding ring and says there will be no other woman in his life. Like, there was only one woman for him. So, there are men like that; my dad isn't the only one in the world)))
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October 18, 2026, 7:45 AM
Evgeniya
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Ugh, how did you decide to date a younger guy? How did you even meet?
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October 18, 2026, 7:45 AM
Kristina
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Sex without commitment with someone who isn't married.
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October 18, 2026, 7:48 AM
Marina
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Met him on a dating app. I just wanted to chat, you know? He was also 120km away from me on a business trip. We talked non-stop on the phone for 3 weeks, and after our first meeting, we both realized it was serious! It was a week before New Year's, and he put a ring on my finger as the clock struck midnight. He was also recently divorced and wasn't planning on getting married again. He moved from Kamchatka to our region to live for himself. Well, he lived for himself for a year, and that's enough! lol
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October 18, 2026, 7:51 AM
Oksana Kornienko
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Lukinskaya Anna 😁😁😁 Did he tell you he's a grump?
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October 18, 2026, 7:54 AM
Lyali
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Some will agree, some won't
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October 18, 2026, 7:54 AM
Marina
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The difference between us isn't visible, not even in how we interact. On the contrary, he's very smart and interesting, and I feel like a little girl with him.
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October 18, 2026, 7:54 AM
Marina
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VK Dating. You can set your own age limit for who can message you, and they can't message you until you mutually like them. They'll only occasionally appear in recommendations.
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October 18, 2026, 8:51 AM
Marina
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There's actually a lot of stuff out there. You can tell how long someone's been on by the time. Often, you can tell what someone's looking for from their profile too. You can just read it and not like it, and then they can't message you)
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October 18, 2026, 8:51 AM
Olga
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Oh, thanks! I tried to sign up there twice, but the tab is still open. For some reason, I thought only the "worthy" ones could join 🙄
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October 18, 2026, 8:57 AM
Shashkova Anna
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Stepping on the same rake again) You were sure about your husband too, the internet remembers. And now again.
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October 18, 2026, 9:09 AM
Kristina
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Any kind, you just have to actively look for them. It's like finding a needle in a haystack, 99.99% of the time.
Women who just sign up and wait to be found don't have success.
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October 18, 2026, 9:18 AM
Lukinskaya Anna
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Lukinskaya Anna I know. It's been twenty years.
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October 18, 2026, 9:18 AM
Olga
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Oh well, I didn't want it that badly anyway 😂
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October 18, 2026, 9:27 AM
Oksana Kornienko
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Lukinskaya Anna Oh yeah, I get it. 20 years is a big deal.
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October 18, 2026, 9:51 AM
Marina
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Yeah, but I was 25 back then, and now I'm 42. So, I have more experience and more brains. I can read people! 😉
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October 18, 2026, 10:01 AM
Marina
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Of the sites out there, this one is the most decent.
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October 18, 2026, 10:01 AM
Shashkova Anna
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Fingers crossed! 🙏
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October 18, 2026, 10:06 AM
Lukinskaya Anna
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Lukinskaya Anna I think I know best. I live with this person and see them every day.
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October 18, 2026, 10:21 AM

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