Ladies, I'm on the committee with two other moms. One of them was on my son's committee before, and…

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Ladies, I'm on the committee with two other moms. One of them was on my son's committee before, and she does everything herself without even asking – she just decides and buys things. I tell her, 'At least let us know or ask sometimes,' but she always asks everyone else, just not me, even though we have a decent relationship. Then, a friend of mine suggested New Year's gifts. I posted in the parents' group, and almost everyone agreed. But then she, and another mom (who I don't get along with very well), started complaining *after* everyone had already agreed and sent money. I told her, 'You told me yourself you were okay with it personally, but you're writing something different in the group...' Anyway, I said my piece and wrote that I'm quitting the committee. So, my question is: would you write to the teacher to have her removed from the committee, or would you just do nothing more?
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Fedorova Karina
What does the teacher have to do with it? The teacher doesn't appoint the parent committee 🤦️ They stepped down, and that's their prerogative. It's voluntary.
But based on the situation you described, I wouldn't investigate anything. I'd just say that the decision about gifts is made by majority vote.
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Elena
The teacher has nothing to do with this. If they ask you a question, just say you're not on the committee and to ask so-and-so instead...
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Alisa Selezneva
They left, and that's that. No need to write to anyone. The teacher has nothing to do with it. If they ask you, just say you left.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
What do you mean she stepped down from the committee? Did she appoint someone?
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Kristina
Our teachers don't even know the whole committee.
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elena tolstygina
Vedeneva Yuliya Yes
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elena tolstygina
Elena The teacher assigned us!!
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elena tolstygina
Fedorova Karina The teacher assigned us!
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elena tolstygina
Our teacher assigned us!
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elena tolstygina
The caregiver was assigned to us!
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elena tolstygina
Alisa Selezneva The teacher assigned us!
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elena tolstygina
Kristina The teacher assigned us!
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Kristina
Kristina then I would let you know
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Vedeneva Yuliya Interesting. So, what do you all do in general?
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Olga
toddler pull-on underwear
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Hristodor Natalya
You respond so fiercely to everyone, like you were appointed by a teacher, or like the president himself appointed you as his deputy! 😁
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Lena Pugacheva
Vedeneva Yuliya We also had 3-5 people in different groups. Now there are three. When I was there, we worked in pairs
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Fedorova Karina
Fedorova Karina She's definitely meddling. It seems her parents couldn't get organized. I can't think of another explanation. Usually, educators are just told who to contact and who's handling organizational matters.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Vedeneva Yuliya We have one in our groups, and at school too
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Guzel
So what? She did it because she was asked to. If you step back, no one will ask you anything. Why should a teacher know about parental conflicts? She has enough of her own worries
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