I've mentioned before that my mom is undergoing cancer treatment. I drove her from clinic to clinic…

I've mentioned before that my mom is undergoing cancer treatment. I drove her from clinic to clinic for radiation therapy. She completed 27 radiation sessions. The doctor prescribed 4 more chemo sessions, but Mom announced she wouldn't do chemotherapy. Why? Because she's afraid of losing her hair, and she doesn't want to be without it, believing it's better to die. Today was a doctor's appointment, and on the way there, we argued three times. I was upset because she reads unnecessary information online and listens to anyone but the doctor. It was useless talking to her for a month. I told her, "If you sign the refusal now, I won't drive you anymore, I won't help, I won't visit. If you've decided to die, do it without me. When you die, then I'll come. But I don't want to see this nightmare again. You have about six months to a year. Buy a coffin, everything you need for the funeral. I'll take you there now, and goodbye." In the end, she went to the doctor, came out, and said, "I'm staying." Tomorrow she has tests, and the day after tomorrow, chemo. You'll pick me up on Monday, and the second chemo is in three weeks. I hope that even though I spoke harshly, it helped. Everyone in the waiting room was sighing and saying they didn't want to be a "phantomas" either, that it's better to die, and so on.