I've heard this question more than once: 'Why don't you take the baby for a walk?' It drives me craz…

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I've heard this question more than once: 'Why don't you take the baby for a walk?' It drives me crazy. I've explained many times that we go to parks or other courtyards... Sometimes I want to answer differently, preferably send them off. Now I've reached the KB, which is right in the courtyard, so it's better to get pasta, a loaf, sausages, and layered cakes there for the kids. I haven't slept all night, just exhausted... And the old ladies shake their heads again, sit there and gossip. I myself go there for cheese, take layered dough, sausages, a loaf, pastries, condensed milk, eggs, butter... Our favorite is milk, the family is large, so indeed we go there and buy. It's as close as possible, and you can quickly buy what's needed. There's a lot of stuff, and I also bring something for tea. But for some reason, the older generation is upset, so I went to the KB, and they say I didn't take the baby for a walk... My son walked with my daughter today because I literally felt like I had sand in my eyes from not sleeping all night. Despite the blood pressure of 160/100/120, I prepared lunch, mopped the floors, prepared dinner, went to the store, and there they are, the old ladies gossiping. Honestly, they drive me up the wall. What would your reaction be? Should we dance with drums under their windows so they see that we're walking? We don't like our courtyard. When my son goes for a walk with my daughter, he goes to my mother's courtyard next door. My husband doesn't care, said to ignore it, but you know, it's already becoming shameful for me to go there for milk.
I don't usually suffer from insomnia, but today I didn't sleep at all 🧟️. My head hurt so much that…
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Mataxari
I honestly don't care what anyone says.
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Gaynullina Liliya
Bitches are just jealous, you can booze and they can't 😂
And about the supermarket, I'm a frequent visitor there too, milk, cheeses, dumplings, sweets, little things for the kids, oh and they also have great wipes for cleaning the house 😂
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Anna
Who cares?)
I told one person to f*** off, and no one else has dared to speak up since)
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Kristina
I didn't understand anything, what are these old ladies talking about, how do they know about your life?
"What would your reaction be" - to what? To strangers gossiping? My reaction would be to "buy myself headphones and listen to music when I leave the house," and I wouldn't know at all what these old ladies were talking about.
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Mariya Glebova
I don't really talk to the neighborhood grandmas – I have no idea what goes on in their heads))
There is one, though, who my little one really likes. He runs to her and chirps away, showing her his toys. She's just great and kind.
Don't associate with those meanies)
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Gulya
None. I wouldn't answer. They're nobody to me, so I don't have to report to them.
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Kroshka Koshka
Mataxari Even when you're carrying everything in your arms, they sit there craning their necks and whispering. And the cheeky ones even say it to your face
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Kristina Krasnova
This is a great way to answer the question: 'How many times a day did you walk your children?'
This generation didn't walk their kids at all))
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Kroshka Koshka
Kristina It's almost all old ladies living in my building, gossips. They come out, sit and chat, and I feel awkward walking past them, and I can't tell them off, though I'd like to 😀
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Kroshka Koshka
Gaynullina Liliya I can, but that's not why I go there 😀
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Kristina
Mataxari Reply with "God forgive them." To everything, say "God forgive them" or "I'll pray for you," as if you pity them.
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Kristina
Who cares what the old ladies think, let them think whatever they want. And in my opinion, KB stopped being just an alcohol store a long time ago. There are usually more young schoolchildren there than drunks – cheap candies, chips, cookies. We do our daily shopping there – bread, cheese, milk, yogurt. I can't even remember the last time I bought alcohol there.
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Kristina
Kristina So these are some strangers. Why do their words bother you?
And when the TV says "serve the motherland," do you run to ***, and when an ad says "buy this," do you run to buy it?
It's just background noise. Your husband knows how to ignore it, learn from him. Or buy headphones to really ignore it.
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Tatyana Rubtsova
Oh, my mouth is hard to shut up when someone starts regularly pouring their negativity on me 😁 Honestly, I don't choose my words carefully either if I don't see the point 😁 And with the old ladies I argued with, usually telling them off loudly and clearly helped more than staying silent and smiling.
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Anna
Anna Hahaha, that too, right?)
My neighbor, at 80 years old, asked her husband a brilliant question about orgasm after 40 days of his passing.
I still can't forget it after 5 years, damn 🤣
If they had lived the life I wanted, maybe I would listen to what they shout from the sidelines. But they are all like this, so let them sit and gossip; the only joy in someone else's life is when they have none of their own.
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Kristina
Kristina It's very strange that the word "v o e n k o . a t" was replaced with asterisks as if it were profanity
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Natalya
I love arguing with old ladies 🤣 it rarely happens though, since we live in a private house and don't have benches with old ladies around)) but if a dispute with them does happen somewhere, I don't care about their age))
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Kroshka Koshka
Kristina Yes, you're right, everyone is different. I'm very sensitive to others' opinions 🤷
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Kristina
Kristina Learn from your husband
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Kroshka Koshka
Tatyana Rubtsova I once decided to tell her that she smelled like earth, and she was still sitting there discussing young people. She got so offended that she kept throwing the doormat at our door every day, the one that lay at the entrance to the building, and it was difficult to leave the apartment because it was so thick… In the end, my husband freaked out and threw it in the trash. Now she's just talking shit about us 😀 She assures all the old ladies that my husband works at a factory, I literally burst out laughing when I heard it. Where do people get such imagination from? Probably from having nothing better to do… 🤷
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Tatyana Rubtsova
Tatyana Rubtsova You don't become like that in old age from a happy youth... In my youth, I was called all sorts of things by the local old women. One time, I was returning home from inventory at work in the morning, around 8 AM, it was quiet in the yard, birds were singing. The local old ladies were already hanging out on the bench, they saw me and started discussing where I'd been all night 😂 I walked up and said, 'I have a friend who likes older people... let me introduce you, after all, quality sex strengthens health' 😂 She turned blue with anger, but after that, whenever she saw me, she immediately shut her mouth and turned away.
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Olga
Kristina So, the thing here is that they bleep out words with a military root. And what I like most is that they bleep out 'mother-heroine' (h.e.roine 😉, well, that's because of the narcos and kitties 😂
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Olga
Kristina Oh, they didn't get a big head, it used to be like that
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