And how do your girls feel about this doctor? Have you seen him yet? The clinic gave us a referral f…

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And how do your girls feel about this doctor? Have you seen him yet? The clinic gave us a referral for a check-up, including a gynecologist visit. My daughter won't have any of it. Her stance is: "I'm not going," and that's it, full stop. Besides, there are already issues; her periods are irregular. I tell her: Problems can arise in adulthood, including with children. And I don't want any children anyway. The conversation is over 🤷️. I don't know what to do…
Girls? That one... snores, damn it🙈 Does that wake you up? Have you gotten used to it? Or maybe you…
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kristina
It's okay. We didn't go. There was no medical check-up. If there is one, we'll definitely go.
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Ruzanna
Yes, everyone was calm (except the youngest, she's fighting with the doctor 🤣).
What does she explain it as?
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Nastasiya
Kids rarely want kids themselves. Find your motivation—especially since there are problems. For some, it's clear skin, which you won't have if you have issues, for others it's pain. We went, specifically with a problem—my period had just started and it was making me feel awful. We went, we saw. They need to be given more information about what's going on. I didn't know so much when I was a teenager—sometimes I think about it and it's scary.
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Marina
We went, but no one looked at the chair, they just asked questions
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Suhareva Olga
Okay, I've had a check-up every year since 5th grade, and that's good.
They've only had 2 in 4 years.
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Mama♡ocharovatelnoy dochki♡
Explain to your child that this doctor is very important and that this area needs to be looked after just like other parts of the body. You need to prepare your child.

My son also doesn't like going to a male doctor 😂
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Romanova Olga
I attended regularly at 3 and 6 months too, but now it's just impossible((
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Romanova Olga
Ruzanna I just don't want to undress in front of a stranger.
I explain that it's a doctor, but to me, they're still a stranger.
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Evryukova Kristina
Does she know all about puberty and stuff?
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Elenka
No problem at all with the older one. Just tell them they won't be looking at the chair anyway.
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Aliya
There can be other stories before the kids come along. Like unusual hair growth or a body weight that isn't quite right. I'm talking about persuading someone to see a doctor. My classmate friend got vitamins prescribed on a schedule after such a visit.
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Romanova Olga
Aliya Hair growth and weight gain are all good—she knows this herself, she's enlightened 😉
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Kushnir Anna
Um... we haven't really had this problem. My daughter sees all the doctors I tell her to... including the gynecologist. Her periods will regulate within a year, that's what the gynecologist told us. They might not come, or they might. So, it's normal if they don't come for two months. It's normal if there's little flow, it's normal if your stomach hurts for a long time during your period.
But just in case, we did hormone tests, etc. After a year, her periods became regular.
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Romanova Olga
Yes
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