I'm not married yet, but I really want to be 😂 With a good husband, a million problems would be sol…

I'm not married yet, but I really want to be 😂 With a good husband, a million problems would be solved right away – support, a strong shoulder to lean on, and finances. I would rent out my own place, and that would provide another source of income. But my friends who are married regret getting married. Their husbands don't give them money. One woman's husband even takes her benefits, giving her only enough for one pack of pads, nails, and eyelashes. They can't buy clothes for themselves. Even though their husbands have their own apartments, cars, and leisure activities. They don't even give money for dental work. Like, "it's expensive, maybe later when the child grows up and you go back to work, then you can fix your teeth"... They're trying to dissuade me from marriage, saying it's all really bad. But they entered marriage without a financial cushion, one even with debts and without her own place. Their husbands don't register them in their apartments; they live in their parents' homes. Is marriage really that bad? Why don't they get divorced if they're unhappy with their partners? Have all men become greedy? My grandfathers, father, and brother always provided for their families, and there were no problems. But the women weren't freeloaders either, except maybe when on maternity leave. Are all men stingy now? The fact that one and the other say they'll give money for formula and diapers, but not for dental work or a winter jacket. They say, "you're at home on maternity leave anyway, nobody sees you." One friend even suffers from toothaches periodically. But her husband has money for going out with friends, fast food, and leisure.