I hate these two to three days before my period. I become such a terrible person

Rudyh Polina

1 child

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I hate these two to three days before my period. I become such a terrible person—everything about me feels like garbage. Life isn’t easy for my loved ones or for me. This morning I woke up at 3 a.m. and fell into self-criticism. I thought that nothing I do is working, I have no ideas, and what I’m doing feels like garbage. That feeling hasn’t gone away. I snapped at my husband this morning. I was waiting for him to wake up so I could tell him that yesterday he didn’t steal anything. But Emma isn’t annoying. She’s the only person who doesn’t annoy me, even with her teenage tone. I just needed to vent.

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Yuliya

4 children

My husband and son don't drive me crazy; it's only my daughters who do.

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September 17, 2025, 8:42 AM

Lyudmila

And then—surprise—there's a new woman in his life, because you all irritate him too; he simply doesn't keep you in the loop 😂

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September 17, 2025, 8:42 AM

Zarina

Sigh, I understand you—I'm going through the same thing. It got worse, especially after my two deliveries. My husband ends up dealing with it the most, of course 😁

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September 17, 2025, 8:43 AM

Lyudmila

Yuliya As if they'd kick you out while you're living off them 😂

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September 17, 2025, 8:43 AM

Olga

2 children

During PMS, I feel intense anxiety and wind myself up to a fever pitch. I used to drive my loved ones crazy with it, but I realized it was mostly due to my irritable temperament 🙂 It's as if during PMS I decide to behave this way, hiding behind hormones. I'm trying now to analyze it and think more critically. I don't plan anything serious, I don't make decisions, I don't resolve issues in my relationships. I simply overlook things. Sometimes I have to push myself to do even that 🙂

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September 17, 2025, 8:45 AM

Tsyguleva Alisa

1 child

Yeah, it's all about our hormones; we understand each other, but not the men.

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September 17, 2025, 8:46 AM

Anastasiya

1 child

Oh my goodness, this kind of thing started happening to me after I gave birth. Before, there weren't any wild mood swings... I can't stand myself in this state either. I'm tired of telling my husband not to react to me—just once a month would be enough, but he keeps being dense and it turns into a Mortal Kombat.
And even on antidepressants, I break down during periods like this.

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September 17, 2025, 8:54 AM

lyubov

1 child

It seems the point lies in the last sentence: you may be harboring dissatisfaction inside yourself, perhaps pushing it down or undervaluing it, and then you justify those emotions as PMS—as if it's a hormonal issue. But there isn't a hormonal explosion in an adult woman that would suddenly make her angry. At most, the emotions are intensified.

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September 17, 2025, 8:55 AM

Rudyh Polina

1 child

Anastasiya I'm also going through hell, but this period is wearing me down. My husband, thank God, doesn't argue with me at all. He knows that if I lose it, he should just calmly ignore me.

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September 17, 2025, 8:57 AM

Anastasiya Tihonova

1 child

A wellspring of truth about womanhood is opening.

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September 17, 2025, 8:57 AM

Tatyana

1 child

Oh wow, I've been dealing with this for about 2–3 days now. It's the same thing happening to me, and my skin is also covered in pimples... 🤦
I sometimes read your posts, and it feels like looking in a mirror. 🤣

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September 17, 2025, 9:06 AM

Rudyh Polina

1 child

Tatyana 😂😂
We’re from the same planet!

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September 17, 2025, 9:09 AM

Anastasiya

1 child

Anastasiya Your husband has already gained some worldly wisdom, it seems. I'm just waiting for mine to come along eventually 😄

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September 17, 2025, 9:09 AM

Tatyana

3 children

Oh, during PMS or pregnancy, it's hell on earth. And after I gave birth, I'm such a sweetheart 🤣

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September 17, 2025, 9:12 AM

Rudyh Polina

1 child

Tatyana That's so funny! 😂😂

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September 17, 2025, 9:15 AM

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