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And please return all the gifts. If you won't meet me, I'll file a police report saying that you allegedly stole something from me (I didn't steal anything). He writes from fake accounts that he'll come soon and cause me trouble. Overall, how can I get rid of someone like that? Or should I wait for him to calm down?
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Ira
Please ask your father or brother for help—they'll talk to him.
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Lapina Svetlana
It's time to take a moment to calm down.
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Kristina
Please refrain from contacting them.
Save screenshots of the requirements.
Use them to prove that these were gifts.
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mariya
Please tell them to file a police report against him for threats and to include that all conversations with him have been recorded.
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Gulya Koltunova
Ira I don’t have a father or a brother—that’s the issue. And anyway, someone I know spoke to him, and he’s been saying all sorts of things about me.
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Irina
My ex-husband harassed me for 2.5 years.
I even moved over 2,000 kilometers away.
But he kept messaging me.
He only calmed down after he found himself a new girlfriend.
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Gulya Koltunova
Irina Wow 🤨, dang it—unfortunately, it looks like I’ll have to leave.
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Valentina
Regarding his statement, do you have screenshots of what he writes? On social networks you can set your profile to private. Also, where is it not possible to change the number?
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Olesya
Please change your phone number.
If possible, also update your place of residence.
And finally, contact the police.
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Olga
I would block them everywhere, change my phone number and social media accounts, and move away. I know it's not easy. But my emotional safety and physical safety come first.
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Gulya Koltunova
Olga It's scary to realize that sometimes girls move away even from people like that.
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Konko Anton
My partner even attacked me. For a year I couldn't shake him off. I had to move, and he backed off.
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Irina
File a police report first; his claims about the theft will seem like lies next to yours. If that doesn't help, I would move and change my phone numbers and social media accounts.
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yuliya
Olga That's how I moved away from my ex-husband, four thousand kilometers away, after he had stalked me for six months and wouldn't leave me alone. In the final moment, he attacked me with a knife, cut my hair, and injured my hands and fingers. As I covered my face to protect it from his blade, I hired a realtor to sell the apartment and left with a single suitcase and my child in my arms.
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Vera
So, what does he want? What's his goal—to be together?
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Ira
Ira Of course it's a pity that your ex is so unreliable. You could talk to him on the phone yourself and explain that gifts are gifts, they can't be returned, and you don't want them to be. This is your financial security for you and your child, and he'll still earn money anyway—he's a man.
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Valentina
Valentina Well, his fantasies won't be accepted either.
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Elena
Valentina And as for the theft, they'll handle it just fine 😅
And then try to prove that it was truly a gift from him, and not that she stole it. There's a receipt, a report has been filed, and the item has been found in her possession. That's all.
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Elena
Valentina It seems this is about a guy, not my ex-husband :)
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Valentina
Valentina Well, it's not clear who he is. Anyway, it wouldn't matter—if things were that simple, everyone would be walking around with receipts and proving something.
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Elena
Valentina There are some not-so-bright people, believe me)))
But there are simply more reasonable people.
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Svetlana
Olga What a freak. And nothing was wrong with him?
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Svetlana
Ira What if we end up returning the gifts after all?
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Gulya Koltunova
Vera Yes, the goal is to settle down.\nBut that’s impossible.\nThe person kept creating problems and then would disappear until I could deal with them.\nI’ve drawn a line.\nThere is no peace now.
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