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If I meet a guy on a dating app and he immediately suggests meeting up, but for me, it feels a bit r…

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If I meet a guy on a dating app and he immediately suggests meeting up, but for me, it feels a bit risky without getting to know him through messages first. Plus, I'm not that interested. I want to have a general idea of who I'm meeting. He's not into chatting, claiming he's bad at talking about himself. What should I do? Run away to get to know him better? Because I suggested getting to know him better through messages, we're losing contact. Am I doing something wrong? I'm not interested in meeting a "no-name" person, even for a walk or going out somewhere. What if there's a bad person behind the screen...
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anna
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Maybe he doesn't want to waste time texting. When you meet in person, you can immediately see the person, their manners, habits, reactions to questions, and how they handle situations. That can also play a role. But with texting, you can say whatever you want.
A walk in the park won't obligate you to anything, and then you can decide if you want to go to a cafe with him.
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October 1, 2026, 7:42 PM
Olchik
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I just don't get these dating sites.
It feels like only insecure people are on them.
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October 1, 2026, 7:42 PM
Lyudmila
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That's how I met my husband on VK! We met the next day, and I moved in with him a month later. We've been together for 15 years now, married for 14 of them 😂
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October 1, 2026, 7:42 PM
Lolo
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Dating sites are 90% trash. I wouldn't go on any date, and it's not a given he'd show up alone, not with his buddies to set up a group thing. I've had experiences with guys from dating apps, I only registered for fun and out of boredom, they're all horny.
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October 1, 2026, 7:42 PM
Efremova Evgeniya
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I wouldn't go. I set the conditions, and if it's a no, it's a no.
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October 1, 2026, 7:51 PM
Evgeniya Saveleva
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That's how I met my husband! )
We chatted for a month, then met up, and a month later I moved in with all my stuff.))
We've been living together for 4 years.
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October 1, 2026, 7:51 PM
Elena
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Evgeniya Saveleva So you've been chatting for a month, not 20 minutes!
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October 1, 2026, 7:57 PM
Olesya
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Or maybe they just don't want to waste time, because in messages people can make things up or photoshop pictures, but in person, everything is immediately visible, and it's harder to lie on the spot. When I was younger, I used to chat for an hour or two and then meet up, but I was 24 then, and going on dates was fun. I always chose public places, of course, so there would be people around. But if you're not comfortable with it, it's your right to refuse.
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October 1, 2026, 8:03 PM
sazonova margarita
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Sure, that way you'll figure out faster if you're interested in him or not. Those chats used to annoy me too. I met him and immediately knew I didn't need to waste any more time, and everyone was clear. I'm probably like 20 years old, with my whole life ahead of me.
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October 1, 2026, 8:06 PM
Albina
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You can always understand someone better in person. Meet in public places, and that's it.
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October 1, 2026, 8:45 PM
Svetlana
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I won't go out with someone until I know them inside and out and I like them. I don't understand people who are ready for anything on the first date.
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October 1, 2026, 9:06 PM
Svetlana
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Evgeniya Saveleva Lucky you! I remember a case where a woman was talking like this, and when she went to meet him, he killed her.
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October 1, 2026, 9:09 PM

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