Okay, so if someone's divorced once, you might say they were unlucky. A second time? You could say i…

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Okay, so if someone's divorced once, you might say they were unlucky. A second time? You could say it just didn't work out. But three or more times? What does that even mean? Are they just unlucky every single time, or is it something about the person themselves? Like, do they attract the "wrong" kind of people, or are they just bad at choosing? Personally, would you get married a third time (or more)? Or would you just live without marriage?
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Suhareva Olga
I have an acquaintance who's been divorced 3 times. But as far as I can tell, she just doesn't know how to live without a man.
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Elena
I'm living without being married. We're happy this way, and a child doesn't change that.
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Kristina
Depends on who you ask... why not
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Olga
Elena Legally speaking, I think it works, but you don't have to get married right away. You could live together normally for a few years and then tie the knot.
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Elena
Elena That's about how we're planning, I'm not agreeing to that yet
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Olga
Suhareva Olga But guys these days… you really have to look for a good one.
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Olga
Elena Something to think about! 😁
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Olga
Kristina I agree, it's worth looking into
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Elena
Elena Yeah, yeah, I was married for 8 years and didn't expect this outcome. I'm not counting the deceased.
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Oksana Kornienko
I'm doubting for the second time if I should. But some people like getting married every time
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Marina
Hoping this is the last one. I wouldn't consider a man for a second marriage for serious relationships.
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Oksana
Or maybe it's the wrong people. Or someone gets excited quickly, but also makes decisions easily – they don't hesitate with "I'll endure it," "Let's go to a psychologist," etc.
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Yulya
You can meet the wrong people sometimes. Our godfather is… well, he's excessively kind. He's been fooled three times already. They take all his money and leave.
And there's an acquaintance who's been a widow four times. That's something to think about, isn't it?
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Elena
Either way can happen. Maybe the person isn't great, or maybe they just don't know how to choose.
This is my second marriage, and I really hope it's my last.
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Albina
I know a guy who's been divorced 3 times and dated my colleague for several years. After talking to him, it's clear that the women were right to leave him all three times!))
But I definitely wouldn't make a rule out of this situation.
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Elena
Elena Well, you see, I've been married a few times, but he's only been married once.
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Ekaterina
I'm not planning on a second time either 😂 one marriage is enough
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Suhareva Olga
Suhareva Olga It's not really a good idea to just jump on the first person you meet.
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Olga
Elena So, my colleague just got married for the second time. Her husband is on his 4th marriage, and they're living happily ever after. They're both older, she's 50+, and he's almost 60, but they've been married for 10 years. From what I hear, he's a good man. So, I don't understand what the problem is... is it just fate?
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Elena
Elena Based on what he tells me now, I wouldn't have married him the first time either 🤣. He's calmed down with age, and now he's exactly the man I want. I don't think about anything other than cooking.
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Olga
Albina So, there's this guy, a colleague's been telling me about him for three years now. I really don't understand why it's his fourth marriage; he's been divorced three times. He does everything for her family, for her daughter, for her, and even for her sister. Yes, he has flaws, but they're not dealbreakers, like drinking/cheating/hitting/gambling/doing drugs – nope, none of that. Plus, he puts all his money into the family. I don't know, got me thinking.
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Alina
This is my third marriage.
I got married for the first time at 18 to someone I'd been dating since I was 15. We were married for 2 years and then divorced. The divorce happened because he became abusive and because of his mother.
My second marriage lasted a year; he cheated.
Now, this is my 3rd marriage. We've been together for 10 years and have two kids.
Everyone has their own reasons for divorce, so I'll never judge someone who's been divorced more than 5 times.
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Olga
Alina It's not about judging, it's about understanding if this is just how someone's life is, their perception of the world, or if there's a problem with building relationships.
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Alina
Alina Some people just have bad luck. I have a friend who always seems to attract alcoholics or morally bankrupt men. As she says herself, it's like whatever bad thing is out there, it finds its way to her.
Sometimes a person can be the problem themselves. My husband had a guy like that in his unit – this dude had been married 5 times. But he was a drunk, physically abusive to his wives, cheated on them, stole money, and just disappeared.
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Olga
Alina To marry someone like that, it would have to be true love...
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Elena
Alina Some girls just endure, their minds are set on divorce, it's ingrained. Then there are those who don't endure, who love themselves and won't put up with what they shouldn't have to.
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Alina
Alina He told everyone that his ex-wives were bad and he was good, and so on. He courted them beautifully at first, but over time he showed his true colors. At first, we also thought he was a good person until he trashed the apartment we were renting and scammed a mutual friend out of 500,000.
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