Today, anonymous posts about sex and various problems flooded in, and it seems like they're all from…

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Today, anonymous posts about sex and various problems flooded in, and it seems like they're all from the same person. In one of the posts, I got curious because I'm in the same situation. My older daughter (12 years old) has been having trouble falling asleep: she has second-shift classes, sleeps in the morning until about 10 AM. As a result, she lies there, can't fall asleep, I used to be like that too. She starts getting up to drink water, go to the bathroom, find the cat, etc. And this goes on until 2 AM. I can't relax properly like this. Plus, we shower after sex. Now we have to be quiet about it, like thieves, otherwise how? The noisy dishwasher saves us, which I often turn on at night. It's not like we do it often anyway. My husband started waking her up at 8-9 AM so she wouldn't lie around for so long.🤣 So the question is: do you always have sex peacefully when the kids are awake? It's one thing if the kids are five years old and wouldn't suspect anything. There are just so many couples here who have sex every day, morning and evening, and it's all easy when the kids are awake?🫣 Although there are those who live with their parents. I probably wouldn't have sex at all if my mother-in-law or mother were just on the other side of the wall. 🙈 At the same time, many people say that their teenagers stay up until 5 AM, sitting at the computer or on their phones.
I have a question because I see questions here about whether a dishwasher is necessary, which I used… Just out of curiosity. Although this has been discussed a hundred times. Any option is good as long…
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Kristina
I read about sex and hanging issues... I think I've had enough internet for today 🙈😆
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Elena
Our nursery is across the hall, and our bedroom is isolated on the other side. We usually wait until the weekend to do this, because during the week we're exhausted from work 🫠
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Yuliya
Kristina I think it also mentioned dangling ones, if I understood correctly 🤪
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Tanya
No. I can't when they don't sleep. They also love to burst into our room, even when the door is closed. We still haven't managed to teach them to knock.
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Kristina
Kristina 🙈
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Yuliya
Elena My son is coming over for the weekend too. He usually watches TV half the night here because he doesn't have one at home, only a computer.
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Yuliya
Tanya Well, we have a latch, so that's good.
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Elena
Elena You need to get away for the weekend! 😅
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Aygerim
No time or desire to do it twice.
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Tanya
Tanya Damn, maybe we should get one too 😁. I'm just afraid my little ones will lock themselves in here somehow.
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Yuliya
Exactly. Not ideal
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Bykonya Anna
The bedroom and daughter's room are off the hallway, doors closed, and we keep our voices down. If we're gathering at the dacha with parents, we can still be quiet. As the years go by, it's less often we feel like or manage to (due to fatigue and responsibilities), but I see no reason to refuse. The main thing is not to be seen and not heard by everyone 😅
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Nadezda
No, we don't have sex when the kids are awake, it's awful.
Maybe when they move to the second floor, we'll be able to, since they'll have their own bathroom on that floor too. But for now, no, it's either at night, or early in the morning, or when we're home alone.
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Yuliya
Tanya All latches now feature emergency release from the outside.
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Elena
Sex in the morning and at night. The older one can go to bed at 1-2, or even 3 AM. If you have enough space, you can take a shower, go to the balcony for a smoke, etc. If it's a studio apartment, then it's a problem.
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Yuliya
Elena We have a four-room apartment. What's your square footage? Ours is 75 sq m.
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Tanya
Tanya You'll need to drill the door for this.
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Lelya
I've already forgotten what a cupcake is 🤪 two months without one. Either I'm sick, or I have no energy left by the end of the day. And during the day when the kids are awake, it's not an option....
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Elena
Elena Also 4 weeks 78 days
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Efremova Evgeniya
I don't know, we turn on the TV and go for it. Without sound, of course, we only let loose when the weekend lines up and they're at school. Even if they guess, they're mature adults, I taught them from childhood that sex isn't shameful, but a part of life.
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Yana
They scream about it 5 times a day.
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Yuliya
Yana About 40% of people here write that they have their period and give birth every day of their lives without a break 😅
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Yuliya
Efremova Evgeniya Oh, so that's what the TV is for in the bedroom? We don't have one there! 🤣
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Yuliya
Lelya sadness
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Elena
Elena If the doors are closed even during the day, the children don't go into the room. Children are taught from childhood that if the doors are closed, it means someone is sleeping and no one should enter.
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Lelya
Lelya Honestly, I don't even want to. I can't relax and there's no pleasure...
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