Do you think being resentful is a petty trait? I, for one, am resentful. I remember who said or did…

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Do you think being resentful is a petty trait? I, for one, am resentful. I remember who said or did something bad to me and when, no matter how long ago. In any argument, I have something to recall and say. Sometimes people are surprised: 'Oh, that was 10 years ago,' as if you shouldn't bring up old stuff. But I remember, and it's not always pleasant for others to hear. How are you with this?
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Elmira
No, but on some subconscious level, everything comes out, and not from me, but from circumstances))
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Kristina
I'm also vindictive... and whether it's a little thing or not, I don't care... I'm at that age where I don't have to put up with it anymore
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sofia namgaladze
I don't forgive grudges)
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Zulya
Kristina 😄👍🏻
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Lyali
I remember everything too. I think it's normal. And yes, I can recall
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Marina Fedorova
I'm not resentful at all. Sometimes I feel like I have memory problems in general. Someone can hurt me badly, and after a while, I struggle to remember why we even argued...
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Zulya
Marina Fedorova Sometimes this trait comes with age
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Mariya
I'm angry and I have a good memory.
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Natalya
I'm forgiving. I always say, 'God is the judge.' I used to be very resentful, and it's not good to be like that.
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Marina Fedorova
Marina Fedorova My memory is failing me with age, I think. I used to remember things for a long time, but now it's become like this.
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Zulya
sofia namgaladze Same here. When I was younger, I could sometimes keep quiet, but as I've gotten older, it all comes out anyway.
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Alena
It depends on what it is. I never remember little things. But if someone really hurts me, of course I'll remember and just stop talking to them, let them go, and won't hold onto those emotions.
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sofia namgaladze
sofia namgaladze Lately, I don't even say anything, I just stop communicating.
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Olya Matskova
I have that trait too, I don't forget grudges.
It's not exactly a good trait for the person who holds grudges. I remember a lot and can't let go.
It's hard to carry all of this in your heart, honestly.


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Efremova Evgeniya
Marina Fedorova This describes me perfectly, I'm the same way
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Zulya
Olya Matskova Agreed. It took me many years, but I finally realized it's better to express everything right away and not bottle anything up. It'll come out eventually, if not now, then later.
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