If the second one is a boy. I didn't understand before when girls here wrote that they even cried wh…

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If the second one is a boy. I didn't understand before when girls here wrote that they even cried when they found out who they were expecting, and it wasn't the gender they would have wanted. Now I get it 🫠. And I realized that if it's a boy, I'll be upset, maybe even cry. Of course, the main thing is a healthy baby. And same-sex children have many advantages too. But I dream so much of a daughter. When I was expecting my first, I also hoped for a girl, but it wasn't meant to be. Now I'm hoping again. We won't be going for a third child 90% of the time, so there won't be another chance 😅. This post is just for chatting) share your stories, opinions, thoughts...
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natalija
In my first pregnancy, I was hoping for a daughter (but I didn't allow myself to even think about having a "preference." I knew any baby would be wanted, but still, I hoped).
Now I'm so happy I have a son.


With my second, I really have no preference.
I understand that a son will probably have more fun with a brother. But I've "felt" what it's like with boys, and I like it now.
But a girl would also be wonderful.

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Olga
We have 3 boys 😅
And we're so happy about it)
When I found out we were having another boy, I felt like I calmed down inside))
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Nastasya
We also hoped for a girl every time, but it only happened on the 3rd try :) When I found out the second was also a boy, I wasn't upset, by then I was already sure that was how it was going to be.
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Olga
I understand you. After my first two daughters, I was dreaming of a son. If they had told me it was a girl the third time, I would have cried too 😂
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Ekaterina
Two boys. Although I wanted a second girl too, I'm happy now that I have two guys)
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Katerina
I cried when the ultrasound showed a boy twice, but I ended up having a girl (my first child). That's why I cried, I had already named him Maxim.
With my second, a girl, I wasn't upset.
For my third pregnancy, I didn't believe it was a boy until the very end.
Now I want a boy, but honestly, I don't mind either way. The most important thing is the baby's health
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Nataliya
I understand you, and I'm so glad I have two daughters. I really didn't want a boy! Especially after my first daughter was born, she was 12 when my second daughter was born, and I already knew from my own experience what a joy it is to have a daughter!
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Irina
On the contrary, I wanted a second boy, but my husband was a little disappointed.
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Katerina
Katerina My sister has 4 girls. 😂 She doesn't want to try for a boy anymore.
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Tanya
At first, the ultrasound for my daughter suggested they'd say it was a boy. It was fine with me. I did want different genders, of course. But I wasn't upset when they said it would be a boy. By the way, my daughter tends to be more friends with and play with boys than girls 😁. She didn't turn out to be a princess.
But my friend has two boys. Yes, she was upset. But boys are boys. Wonderful, amazing guys are growing up.
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Tatyana
You'll cry at first, then you'll accept it. And when the baby is born, you'll love them and wonder how you could have acted that way 🤗. This happened to me during my second pregnancy. I argued with the ultrasound technician, insisting everything was visible, but he said, 'No, girls' genitals are on the outside, and this is a girl.' I cried the whole way home, and my husband comforted me. Now I think, how could I have had anyone else but my second daughter? 🙏🤗
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