Hello. Here's a brief rundown of the situation: my child is 4 years old. During birth, a vacuum and…

Hello. Here's a brief rundown of the situation: my child is 4 years old. During birth, a vacuum and forceps were used, which caused her an injury. Later, it turned out she has a separation between her 3rd and 4th vertebrae. An osteopath worked with her, but unfortunately, it was too late by the time we found out about all this. There were speech issues: after the MMR vaccine, there was a regression in her speech skills. She's currently seeing a neuropsychologist and a speech therapist. She's now 4 years and 4 months old. We went through an assessment, and she has no psychological disorders, only a severe speech impairment (NPR). Recently, the kindergarten psychologist called and said she's moving our group. The paperwork is being processed, and my daughter will be transferred to another kindergarten located at the end of the city. The situation there is very difficult: the children have not only speech problems but also cerebral palsy and psychological disorders. I don't want to send her there. Do you know why? I'm afraid that seeing children like that, she'll think it's normal. This carries a risk of regression not only in speech but also in her psyche and overall development. I heard that the kindergarten has a group suitable for our case (the so-called "DNR"), but it's small, and I'm fundamentally against placing her there. I've called other kindergartens in the city – all the speech therapy groups are already full. I have one option left: either stay without kindergarten at all, or go to the 15th kindergarten to the "TNR" group, but I don't want to send her there. She's only just started speaking normally. Do I have the right to keep my child at home until she's five, go through the assessment again, and get into a group in a different kindergarten? I think I do. But the psychologist said, basically, with our speech impairments, don't expect anything. I've got the feeling they're trying to get rid of us so they don't have to deal with it. At first, she said I had rights but strongly advised against staying, so we wouldn't have to bother ourselves. What would you do in my place? Where would you send your child? I don't want to make things worse. I've already called the education department; there's a woman in charge of this, but she's currently on sick leave. I don't know what to do. I understand my child needs socialization, and I'm not against it; I just don't want to worsen anything. I'm thinking about the best course of action, that's all.