Has anyone here forgiven their husband's infidelity? Did things get better for you, or worse? I'm on…

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Has anyone here forgiven their husband's infidelity? Did things get better for you, or worse? I'm only asking those who have forgiven. Please don't write about how you would never forgive, because I always thought that way myself until I went through it.
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Rimma
A friend forgave me, there was a lot of drama, but the relationship won't be the same as before, not while we're alive.
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Viktoriya Gusynina
My mom forgave my stepfather, but she always says (for over 20 years now) that while she's forgiven him, she'll always remember. And that brings up the question: do you really want to carry that burden your whole life?
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Olga
Everyone's situation is different. None of us are immune to this. You need to understand that if it's constant, it's definitely not okay, as it will bring infection sooner or later.
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Mama♡ocharovatelnoy dochki♡
Nothing worked out
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Larisa
So, I haven't exactly forgiven him, but we're still living together after his affair.
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Elena
Are you forgiving out of hopelessness? Or is your love for him greater than your love for yourself?
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yankovskaya yuliya
It all depends on the feelings within the couple. If there's nothing left, then perhaps it's a reason to separate. During my teenage years, I witnessed my aunt's husband cheating. (I was staying overnight with my cousin, or she would stay with us, because my aunt worked as a train attendant for two weeks at a time, and he worked shifts. That evening, my cousin and I came home late with a friend to stay over). He made us promise not to tell, and in return, he promised not to tell that we were drinking beer (we were caught by him too, at 15 years old)). Of course, I told my mom everything, and of course, my aunt found out. My aunt quit her job, lost a lot of weight, became more beautiful, and started taking care of herself. They had love and a wonderful, caring relationship. They got married about 5 years before my aunt's husband left. She loved him dearly, and after he left, she didn't live much longer. Overall, they had a beautiful family and a fantastic example of a relationship.
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Yuliya
I forgave him, but only because I no longer cared about him. His betrayal didn't affect me at all. We later divorced, but for a different reason.
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