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I found out (they didn't tell me right away, otherwise I would have figured it out immediately) that my husband got a call from the children's clinic. Weird, who gave them his number... They were asking where he lives, what school he attends, and why he's not attending. Should I just stay silent or call on Monday and demand an explanation? He doesn't go to the therapist because there's no need. He also doesn't go to the ophthalmologist, I decided that, he refused to be registered. He went there once seven years ago and hasn't been back since. Yes, his vision is -6.25, but that's no reason to force me to go there, I have the right.
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Katerina
No need to make a fuss, it's standard practice. Nobody's forcing you to go, they're just checking the database.
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Mika
Katerina That's right
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Vedeneva Yuliya
and the third post :)
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Irink@
No calls, you need to storm the clinic in person and give them a piece of your mind! 😄😄 So they never dare to call again
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Mika
Irink@ I personally don't have time
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Marina Boldyreva
I think I get why they called the baby's father and not the mother...
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Vedeneva Yuliya
What's the scandal about?
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Mika
Vedeneva Yuliya Reason for the call, basis
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Mika
Marina Boldyreva They couldn't find my number.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Vedeneva Yuliya You yourself stated the purpose of the call in three posts. The basis is parent
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Marina Boldyreva
Marina Boldyreva Yes, that's exactly it. There are no other reasons at all 😄
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Yuliya
You have a "circle" (OKR?), 3 identical posts 😂 Maybe formulate what you want to tell the world first, and then post it.
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Mika
Yuliya I don't have anything yet
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Mika
Marina Boldyreva Yes, exactly.
They don't even know us.
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Olka
Scandal about what?
It's standard practice, you're assigned to this clinic, you have a specific condition, so they called to confirm your details.
The number was definitely in your file, they didn't just pull it out of thin air.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Yuliya Is this a website glitch?


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Mika
Olka I didn't have a phone and don't have a card.
Maybe, as someone wrote below, through "Gosuslugi" (State Services).
I have the right not to contact them. It's not a disease, just poor eyesight.
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Mika
Yuliya No
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Olka
Olka It's an ophthalmological condition.
So you have it, and what now? Are they forcing you or what?
I guess they called to clarify information.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Yuliya What do you mean, no?
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Mika
Olka they don't force you
when I came for the certificate, they almost pressured me, saying I had to
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Mika
Yuliya The post is there, but no deviation.
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Olka
Olka Were they pressuring you, or almost pressuring you?))
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Mika
Olka They tried to pressure me, insist.
I get where they're coming from—it's their job.
But why are they coming at me like that...?
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Olka
Olka They need you though ))
Don't overthink it
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Mika
Olka I thought so too

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Yuliya
Yuliya You're even responding like you're a bit off, don't fool yourself
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Mika
Yuliya It's okay, I answer.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Yuliya Who wrote about the deviation?
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Vedeneva Yuliya
Olka You get paid even without you being there
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Katerina
Katerina We went to a private clinic for the first 3 years with our older child, and they called us a few times looking for us. I just answered that I was being monitored privately, and that was it. They'd make a note of it and have no further questions. They search because sometimes the registry has errors, like if a child has left the country but is still listed in the database.
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yuliya
Severe myopia. You should go. Yes, they might call the child welfare services from the clinic to ask how you're looking after your child's health.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya And she doesn't know that they can be prosecuted for neglecting parental duties.
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Kristina
Go to the clinic in person and erase all traces of your child's presence there. Write an application to detach and cancel personal data and consents. Also, write an application to the head doctor stating that they called the wrong parent, and so on and so forth.
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Mika
yuliya This doesn't concern me.
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Mika
yuliya I don't think it's necessary to go to their crappy doctor
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya definitely not relevant
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Agapitova Anya
Call to find out that no one will give you explanations at the clinic, and then you can relax.
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yuliya
yuliya You don't have to go to them, you can go to someone else. But you need to have discharge papers
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Mika
yuliya Nothing should be said.
This is my personal business and my right.
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yuliya
yuliya Your health is your personal business, of course. But the child's health is also monitored by state authorities. Here, they report data to child protective services if they don't see the child for a long time, or if the child has problems and the mom isn't taking action.
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Mika
yuliya Haven't seen a pediatrician in 10 years.
Went to the ophthalmologist once 7 years ago, and that was enough to understand everything.
No one is filing anything anywhere; there's no right or basis for that.
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Mika
yuliya And according to your logic, should your mom live with them too?
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Yuliya
Unsubscribe from the clinic already
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Mika
Yuliya Let it be registered: it doesn't ask for food or drink 😉
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya So now they've clarified where you are and what you're doing. They might even give you a fine to start with, just for taking care of your child
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Yuliya
Yuliya at least they'll leave you alone
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Mika
yuliya Why wouldn't they take care of him? On what grounds is there a fine? The clinic isn't prescribing anything.
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Mika
Yuliya No one's bothering me, I was just surprised by the call
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Yuliya
Yuliya Surprised by just one call in four posts? 🤣
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya she's reporting to child protective services
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yuliya
yuliya Now you've seen it. Did you call first, or your husband? There won't be a reaction, there will be care
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Mika
yuliya Why would she be?
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Mika
yuliya What the heck?
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Mika
yuliya What kind of reaction are they looking for? A complaint to the prosecutor's office, or maybe fireworks?
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya Here are the rules:
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Mika
yuliya There are no such rules or grounds.
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Vedeneva Yuliya
yuliya To start, Article 5.35 of the Code of Administrative Offences of the Russian Federation
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Mika
yuliya What does that have to do with me?
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yuliya
yuliya According to Article 122 of the Family Code of the Russian Federation, a doctor is obligated to contact guardianship authorities if a child has a chronic illness (severe myopia is considered one) and there's no information that the parents are monitoring, examining, or treating the child.
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Mika
yuliya And why on earth would they have that information?
We don't go there and won't be going.
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yuliya
yuliya because you're attached to this clinic. If something happens to the child, she'll be held accountable for not inquiring about the child's well-being, since they aren't attending the medical facility.
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Mika
yuliya No one ever asked me anything.
Why go to them? For what? To catch an infection? To say hello?
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yuliya
yuliya Can you see what I'm writing? Sometimes they don't even ask. All the documentation is electronic now, the doctor can see everything, that the illness is serious, and notifications come through. You should be asking these questions to someone else, not me)
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Mika
yuliya What notifications is she getting? 7 years ago, there wasn't such a big downside.
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yuliya
yuliya Yeah, we used to dig through maps looking for irresponsible parents. Now everything is clearly visible
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Mika
yuliya What does that have to do with me?
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Mika
yuliya Do you feel like you're just visiting the clinic all the time?
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yuliya
yuliya Of course not, I take all my children to specialists when it's time.
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Mika
yuliya And my little one has one problem — vision
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yuliya
yuliya So if you're dealing with this issue, then there won't be any problems.
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Mika
yuliya Myopia can't be cured! It can be stopped, but not healed!
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Mika
yuliya My child, my rules. I need a good doctor, not just the closest one to my building.
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yuliya
yuliya Luckily, in all countries, including ours, a child isn't your property. So 'my child, my rules' doesn't apply.
Besides, as a good parent, you've found a great doctor over the years and you're taking care of your child's health. There's nothing to worry about.
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Mika
yuliya my property
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yuliya
yuliya the laws of the state that we all live by wouldn't agree with you)
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