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I'm a terrible ***. I had a missed miscarriage, had all my tests done, and I'm waiting for the resul…

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I'm a terrible ***. I had a missed miscarriage, had all my tests done, and I'm waiting for the results to get a referral for a vacuum aspiration. When I had my swab done on Monday, the gynecologist said I'd started spotting, that it would 'pour' soon, and as soon as it did, I should go to the hospital immediately. It's Thursday today, the discharge has increased but isn't heavy, I'm passing clots, and I'm still waiting for the 'downpour' but it's not happening. My stomach aches like it does during my period. Half of me wants to give up and go to the hospital today, but then it'll 100% be a mechanical D&C, and the other half is scared and wants to wait it out at home, hoping it'll all pass on its own. Girls, what was your experience? Did you spot and then it all came out? Or was it very heavy? Did you have a D&C? Aaaah.... I'm such a coward 😭
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Lyubanya
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cleaning 5 times
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Yulya Tokareva
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Lyubanya Why so many?
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Lyubanya
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Lyubanya five miscarriages of unclear origin
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
mariya
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I was given pills and then I started bleeding heavily. I didn't even make it home from the hospital before the whole hallway, the toilet, and I were covered. I thought there couldn't possibly be this much blood. They didn't have to clean me out; it all came out on its own in two hours.
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Yulya Tokareva
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Lyubanya At what point did you have a D&C? Did it not start on its own?
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Marina
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There was no downpour. It was just a bit heavier than my period.
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Yulya Tokareva
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mariya I'd love to do that too, but I doubt it'll happen. The on-call hospital today is really not great.
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Yulya Tokareva
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Marina How long did it last?
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October 1, 2026, 11:42 AM
Lyubanya
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Lyubanya I had different gestational ages, three times at 6 weeks and twice at 8 weeks. It started on its own, but I needed a D&C because the gestational sac didn't come out completely.
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October 1, 2026, 11:45 AM
Marina
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Marina It was bad for about 4 days, then it spotted for a long time.
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October 1, 2026, 11:51 AM
Tatyana Zhdanova
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I had a D&C. The pregnancy stopped developing, and I walked around for 3 weeks without knowing. All symptoms were still there, and I had no pain. I guess it was starting to happen on its own 🥲
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October 1, 2026, 11:51 AM
mariya
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mariya Weren't they given pills? Why a D&C right away?
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October 1, 2026, 11:54 AM
Kirichenko Elena
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I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and 3 days. The gestational sac came out, but the chorion remained, so I still had to have a vacuum aspiration.
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October 1, 2026, 11:54 AM
Anastasiya Kiseleva
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I had spotting and they did a vacuum aspiration. But pink discharge started on Saturday, so I immediately went for an ultrasound. They found a missed miscarriage there, and on Sunday I called an ambulance. They did the vacuum aspiration on Monday. They didn't suggest waiting, and honestly, it felt scary. As I understand it, it stopped developing a week ago, and who knows what could have happened.
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October 1, 2026, 11:54 AM
Ekaterina Shipova
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I never waited for things to happen on their own. And there are no guarantees that everything will come out completely, and then you'll need a D&C.
I started spotting, it was confirmed as a missed miscarriage, I was hospitalized, and went home the same day.
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October 1, 2026, 11:54 AM
Tuti
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I never waited for it to come out on its own. First of all, it might not come out completely, and then a D&C is unavoidable. I had two D&Cs, one vacuum aspiration.
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October 1, 2026, 12:00 PM
Lyudmila
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Go to the hospital. I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks, there was a lot of bleeding, I even saw the embryo on my pad, but they still sent me for a D&C.
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October 1, 2026, 12:00 PM
Tatyana Anatolevna
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Two missed miscarriages in a row, two D&C procedures. Waiting for it to happen naturally is not a great experience... it's better to go to the hospital, and if you're early enough, they might be able to help with medication to get everything out. Good luck!
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October 1, 2026, 12:00 PM
Kondrateva Ekaterina
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I had it very early on. Either bleeding and terrible pain. I crawled into gynecology, and they cleaned me out with anesthesia right away. I woke up and nothing hurts or pulls at all. I feel great. And no bleeding after the procedure. Everything was cleaned out well. Then they prescribed birth control pills for three months to help my body recover.
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October 1, 2026, 12:10 PM

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