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We haven't been to the pediatrician in about 10 years. The last time we saw an eye doctor was about…

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We haven't been to the pediatrician in about 10 years. The last time we saw an eye doctor was about 7 years ago, and we haven't been back since. We're not on any regular check-up schedule, even though my child has a high degree of myopia (-6.25). What kind of check-ups are they talking about? They keep calling, and they ask about it at school.
My man's parents. How do I talk to them? Because of my overly "proper" upbringing, I can't bring mys… I was told that my man's parents and relatives are nobody to me. What are your relatives to you? Wha…
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Olya
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My oldest son, who is 10, hasn't been to the clinic – nobody looked for him, and my middle son, around 6, hasn't been there either.
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October 5, 2026, 5:42 PM
Mika
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Olya I was surprised too
Maybe it's because of the vaccination record
It got lost somewhere
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October 5, 2026, 5:42 PM
Olya
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Olya I honestly don't even know where we have them
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October 5, 2026, 5:42 PM
irina makarova
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Interesting, what were you doing 10 years ago if your son is 8?
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October 5, 2026, 5:45 PM
Mika
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irina makarova He's not 8
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October 5, 2026, 5:51 PM
Mika
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Olya They asked at school
Maybe it was lost during the transfer from one school to another
I thought it was at the clinic
The school doctor started looking for it
That's probably why they called

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October 5, 2026, 5:51 PM
Feya
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Olya The immunization certificate needs to be at the school
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October 5, 2026, 5:51 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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This happens from time to time, and you're repeating yourselves. Guess you didn't make a fuss last time
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October 5, 2026, 5:57 PM
Mika
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Vedeneva Yuliya Why make a fuss?
No one called me.
This is the first time I've had checks like this.
I'm not repeating myself.
They called back then, but now the school informed me.
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October 5, 2026, 6:00 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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Vedeneva Yuliya You were going to have a fit, like, they're looking for you. The baby's father probably couldn't answer, so they're checking with the school to see if the baby is alive
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October 5, 2026, 6:00 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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in this case, so as not to be blinded
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October 5, 2026, 6:03 PM
irina makarova
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irina makarova It was a couple of posts ago that he was 8)))
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October 5, 2026, 6:03 PM
Mika
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irina makarova That never happened
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October 5, 2026, 6:09 PM
Mika
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Vedeneva Yuliya For what reason?
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October 5, 2026, 6:12 PM
Mika
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won't go blind
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October 5, 2026, 6:12 PM
Vasilisa
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Vedeneva Yuliya Ask them directly ) and try to use that meme voice if you can 😆
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October 5, 2026, 6:12 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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irina makarova around 8th grade
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October 5, 2026, 6:15 PM
irina makarova
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irina makarova I just remember there was a post where she left him sick by himself. And it was written right there, either in the post or in the comments, about what can happen to an eight-year-old.
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October 5, 2026, 6:18 PM
Mika
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irina makarova It wasn't like that
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October 5, 2026, 6:21 PM
Mika
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Vedeneva Yuliya they won't come, there's no reason for it
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October 5, 2026, 6:21 PM
Natasha
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Does going to a public clinic somehow determine if they're taking care of the child or not? We haven't been to a clinic in a very long time either, but that doesn't mean we aren't taking care of our kids...
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October 5, 2026, 6:33 PM
Mika
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Also, they don't even know their visual acuity; it was a different degree when they were seen.
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October 5, 2026, 6:36 PM
Vasilisa
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Read all of Yanochka's posts, and a lot will become clear 😉
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October 5, 2026, 6:36 PM
Natasha
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I've read her posts and know what she writes. The question is different. They are being treated at a private eye clinic, she's written about it multiple times. What's the need to visit a public one?
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October 5, 2026, 6:39 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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And how will they know if you don't go to them?
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October 5, 2026, 6:42 PM
Olga Antyuhova
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for example, to get a referral to a specific clinic, which she couldn't get into according to her words
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October 5, 2026, 6:42 PM
Vasilisa
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Oh, I didn't see that information. I saw something else. If that's the case, my apologies, I made a mistake on that point. But the fact that, in my opinion, she's a total troll isn't negated by all the posts she writes.
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October 5, 2026, 6:45 PM
Mika
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Why go to them?
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October 5, 2026, 6:45 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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wrote that they can't get into private clinics. I don't see a problem with telling them on the phone that you attend a different medical facility
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October 5, 2026, 6:45 PM
Mika
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I didn't ask for any quota
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October 5, 2026, 6:45 PM
Mika
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And I have to call them and report back? I have more important things to do.
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October 5, 2026, 6:46 PM
Vasilisa
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Hahaha) I definitely won't be upset by the opinion of a troll who thinks I'm an idiot 😁
All the best
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October 5, 2026, 6:46 PM
Olga Antyuhova
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No way! But how were you going to ask for a referral then? They won't give you one if you're not registered with an ophthalmologist.
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October 5, 2026, 6:46 PM
Mika
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I'm not a troll
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October 5, 2026, 6:46 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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They're calling you themselves, why not answer? We don't have a physical connection, but we do have electronic records.
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October 5, 2026, 6:46 PM
Mika
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No one called me personally
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October 5, 2026, 6:48 PM
Mika
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I wanted a doctor's note, not a referral.
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October 5, 2026, 6:48 PM
Olga Antyuhova
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No, you wanted to get a referral because paying out of pocket is expensive, and the waitlist is still long...
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October 5, 2026, 6:48 PM
Mika
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I know best what I wanted
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October 5, 2026, 6:48 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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The certificate should be issued by the organization where you are monitored or after verification.
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October 5, 2026, 6:51 PM
Mika
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I'm not asking for more help, I don't see the point in continuing to be monitored.
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October 5, 2026, 6:51 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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So I didn't understand, you're not going to a private one after all?
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October 5, 2026, 6:57 PM
Mika
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What about it?
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October 5, 2026, 6:57 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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I asked a question. If you walk, they give a certificate there
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October 5, 2026, 6:57 PM
Mika
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I can tell just by looking, and I can predict how much more nonsense you'll say today based on the amount of sugar in my tea.
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October 5, 2026, 7:00 PM
Mika
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No certificate.
I needed one from the state, this is different.
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October 5, 2026, 7:00 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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We're guessing how many more identical posts you'll write ;)
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October 5, 2026, 7:06 PM
Olga Antyuhova
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and the whole site too 😁, the same topics for a couple of months. Son's eyes – the same, plus the hospital, a gluttonous husband, "mommy's boys," your gifts, and an eternally unhappy mom. Maybe there was something else – but this is what repeats.
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October 5, 2026, 7:06 PM
Vedeneva Yuliya
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They don't determine it by sugar levels, and that's right.
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October 5, 2026, 7:06 PM
Natasha
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It's not about the quota, it's about caring for the baby. If she doesn't get the quota, she'll go private.
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October 5, 2026, 7:27 PM
Olga Antyuhova
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It was possible to pay for it, but it was expensive and there was a long wait (because of her posts). In the end, I couldn't see the great doctor (I needed a quota, which is some kind of regional thing).
I don't dispute that she sees patients privately somewhere.
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October 5, 2026, 7:30 PM
Mika
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It's not a region,
it's a different city.
They don't let outsiders in there.
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October 5, 2026, 7:30 PM
Natasha
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What does all of this have to do with anything??
I was responding to a specific phrase:
"You're mother of the year )) You have no time to take care of your child, you're too busy with your man 🤦️ Not visiting the clinic for 10 years is quite something )" ©
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October 5, 2026, 7:36 PM

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