My mother-in-law ignores our child and constantly brags to my husband about her children from her se…

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My mother-in-law ignores our child and constantly brags to my husband about her children from her second son. Yes, our daughter is sharp, and maybe she just doesn't like me, but why does she keep visiting and inviting herself to holidays if she's not even invited? Perhaps out of respect for her son, she could at least acknowledge our daughter, at least ask how her granddaughter is doing. I just can't wrap my head around it, and my husband isn't even offended by her behavior. I supported her when she was diagnosed with cancer, and I brought her groceries at the hospital myself. But then I heard her turning my husband against me. Later, we went to the hospital, and she acted as if I and the baby weren't there, only talking to my husband. After that, I stopped visiting, calling, or congratulating her on holidays, and it's been three years. My husband is afraid she'll die soon. P.S. My mother-in-law disliked me from our first meeting. I came to introduce myself, and she turned around and went into the garden. We ended up meeting her husband's grandmother instead, sitting and drinking tea. I've let go of all that; her attitude towards me doesn't bother me anymore, but why treat the child this way? Our daughter says things to her, but she doesn't even listen, showing in every way that she doesn't care, and when visiting, she only takes photos of other grandchildren, not mine. It hurts for my child.
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vashek irina
We don't drive, and she doesn't call the baby either. We only see each other at family gatherings. Even when I visit my daughter for her birthday, she doesn't pay much attention to the baby, just hands over the gift without much of a "happy birthday."
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Nadya
Aww, don't worry! I have three kids and it's the same situation. My grandkids only acknowledge their second son, but mine aren't grandkids to them. They all look like me, though 🤣 Thank goodness!
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Elena
Let your husband go. What do you have to do with it? Tell her that her relationship with you isn't great anyway, why complicate things? You can even pretend to care about her – why annoy a sick person unnecessarily? 😅
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Nadya
Nadya I was worried at first too, but then it passed. It was hurtful at the time, thinking why *they* had grandkids and I didn't. Now I'm even happy she doesn't call, text, or visit 🤭
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nika
Oh yes, that's normal. We have a daughter, Saint Oleg's (our older son's basket) - 'but Varechka...', our own child is 'this boy of yours' (said with a twisted face, of course)
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