Here's our kindergarten life. Today is the 6th day at daycare, and tomorrow is the morning performan…

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Here's our kindergarten life. Today is the 6th day at daycare, and tomorrow is the morning performance. My son doesn't want to stand in a circle with the others. The teacher says he stands separately, sings songs, and dances. But she still puts him in the circle with everyone, which makes him cry. She's tried putting him in twice already. She said it might be better not to bring him tomorrow, but clarified it's up to me. So now I'm wondering: should I take him or not? It's his first performance. Tomorrow, new kids will join the group, so we're not the only ones in this situation.
In the younger groups, do all the kids use toilets or still potty chairs? My son uses a potty chair.…
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Yuliya
Heard that in my son's class, there were kids who didn't sing or dance until graduation. They'd just stand to the side or sit down.
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Fadeeva Karina
Which group? The second junior one? I probably wouldn't take her. But honestly, I'd see if my child needed it or not. It's the first holiday party, but not the last! 😃
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Ester
I would have taken him, my little one sat on a chair for New Year's, thinking it was a show for him 🤣
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Svetka
There are photos and videos. And he's acting up 😅
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Svetka
Fadeeva Karina Yes, the second youngest. I'm still thinking about it. Maybe she'll just sit and watch for a bit.
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Svetka
Yuliya I'm also thinking maybe they should at least take a look.
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Svetka
Ester 😅 Right. Like in a play.
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Fedorova Karina
I would go and ask the teacher not to push the child too much. Let the child observe and participate in everything as they can. Even now, our kids (and they're 6 years old!) can refuse to participate in the morning performance. Everything was fine before, but then something went wrong, and they just say 'no'.
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Svetka
The teacher has a "perfectionist" syndrome. Everything has to be perfect. Well, he's standing separately, dancing. His own vibe. He's not used to it yet
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Natalya
Would take her
She'll cry and then stop
Questions for the caregivers, is she not coping???
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Svetka
Natalya Wow, they have a lot of requirements. I thought it would be a bit softer for 3-year-olds.
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Natalya
Natalya Let them demand from themselves
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Yuliya
I used to dance in circles with my child when they were 3, they also didn't want to join in with everyone else. It's fine now.
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Kristina
I don't take my baby where they cry.
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