I created a profile based on her public posts on baby.ru. This is Risha from Moscow; she's been on t…

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I created a profile based on her public posts on baby.ru. This is Risha from Moscow; she's been on the site for 10 years and has three children (ages 10, 4, and 1). Full disclosure: this is an impression based on a few open posts, not a diagnosis – just a living sketch. What do her posts show? She's a doer, not just posing. Almost all her posts have a common thread: she values real results. For example, she seriously compares her son's courses to carpentry or asks if other people's sons know how to "screw something in, solder, dig." This means that for her, growing up is about skills, not just ticking boxes with extracurriculars. Her most resonant post was about the "Mom's friend's son," where she ironically mocks competitive parents who constantly discuss their kids' activities in the hallways. For her, this isn't just a topic; it's a stance: no showing off, just substance. Skeptical and structured. Her post about school starts not with emotions, but with a thesis: "Children's problems don't equal school problems" – then she breaks down specifics (locker room, someone else's shirt, who's watching). She likes to lay out the facts of a situation before getting upset. But at the same time, she's emotionally vibrant, with a sensitive taste. She's affected by the "improper": flowers in a supermarket that "cost as much as a cast-iron bridge" evoke almost physical anguish in her. This is how people with high sensitivity to absurdity and neglect react – not to tragedies, but to the world's carelessness. Self-irony as a style. The challenge "show your kitchen workspace" with the caption "I want to check how thrifty I am" – she easily laughs at herself and draws others into it. The text is written conversationally, with slang like "idk" and "are you overthinking it?" – without the "perfect mom" pose. In her communication style, she doesn't complain pointlessly but asks the community questions – "How old are they?" "Who recently did glazing? How much did it cost?" And it works: her "Mom's friend's son" post has 78 comments, the challenge post has 40. She knows how to frame topics so that people want to respond. She posts often (several posts a week) and is active in the comments – "was online 2 hours ago." Final touch: this is the image of an energetic, ironic Moscow woman with three children, who is deeply immersed in the real world – the kitchen, school, her sons, and how everything is honestly arranged. At the same time, she's a little afraid she might have overlooked something beyond the daily routine. Overt anxiety isn't obvious, but rather high demands – for school, stores, and herself.
I'm so emotionally burned out that I just keep repeating in my head, 'I'm a good mom, I'm a good mom…
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tanya
OMG, it can't find me either
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Zuhurova Shabnam
I can't find myself
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Mamalina
I asked Alisa, she found me 😂
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Oksana
And how do you ask the question?
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Yoko
Cool! Interesting idea for a request, I'm going to ask too)
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tanya
tanya
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Tatyana
tanya I can't find it either 🤣
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Kristina
They wrote to me word for word, just with a different name… and three kids appeared out of nowhere 🤣
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Jullia
Mamalina ))what is she saying?)
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Lena Pugacheva
So, you need a standout username.
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Jullia
Kristina Don't know, I found you))
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Kristina
Kristina I also found myself and asked for a portrait, and that's exactly what came out!
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Jullia
Kristina haha, not like me!))

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Kristina
Kristina OMG, it didn't show up for me like that... look at that... community, don't go anywhere 🤣 Mommy's here
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Jullia
Kristina )))
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Jullia
Lena Pugacheva Maybe try writing the username and post title? Perhaps that will help you find it.
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