Does anyone know who the kids went to or are going to? How are their classes? What should a child ev…

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Does anyone know who the kids went to or are going to? How are their classes? What should a child even have in their head after 4 classes? Mine has zero. Either mine isn't smart at all, or the tutor can't get it across. Although she positions herself as a good specialist and charges a high price for the city's standards.
So, her husband punished her: took away her phone and canceled the trip. She cried for an hour. She…
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Yana
The teacher needs to get to the root of where the child "drifted off," often they haven't even grasped the basics, and then everything piles up like a snowball. The child needs to gain clarity and interest in the subject.
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kushner ekaterina
Yana Well, I think so too. I asked the teacher. Her only answer was: everything is going hard, it's hard. He's constantly distracted, it's difficult for him to sit still.
Should I leave her or is it too early to judge? 🤔
Although, again, my neighbor says she "crammed" her son...
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kushner ekaterina
You again! 😁
I'm not even going to start a conversation with you.
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Agapitova Anya
It's already started. You always need to take care of your baby. Just accept that fact.
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Tanya Chamkaeva
It takes about 2 or 3 months to see results.
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kushner ekaterina
Tanya Chamkaeva Got it. So, we'll keep walking
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Kristin★
Every baby has their own pace… mine really started showing results towards the end of last year
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kushner ekaterina
Kristin★ Thank you
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Veshnyakova Irina
My daughter has a math tutor. I gave it a year to see results (one session per week). After a year, the results started showing. She used to be bad at math, and now her teacher gives her more challenging assignments because she's the best in the class. It's actually been a year and a half now, not just a year. Obviously, her grades improved gradually before that too. But she was still getting failing grades even with a tutor for the first six months. Tutoring is a long process. You might not see any results after just 4 lessons.
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kushner ekaterina
Veshnyakova Irina Got it. I should have started exercising in the summer.
I regret it.
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Peryshkina Mariya
We've been going for 5 years, but there aren't any big results... Because the child himself doesn't want to study, they got a C, and that's fine.
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Sysoeva Mariya
My oldest son has been studying with a tutor for 2 months. The tutor says he's a quick learner and solves problems well. He went from a C to a B in school!
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kushner ekaterina
Sysoeva Mariya Maybe it depends on the baby too... Ugh. I don't know what to do anymore. Mine went from a 3 to a 2. They'll get a failing grade for the quarter if they don't improve in 2 weeks
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Sysoeva Mariya
Sysoeva Mariya You should have started sooner, over the summer, but that's okay, keep going and you'll see results!
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kushner ekaterina
Sysoeva Mariya Hoping
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Olga
So, the teacher can't get through to her for years, but a tutor is supposed to do it in 4 sessions?
I think you're asking for a lot. If you have doubts, I'd ask to have the sessions with you present. To listen, to observe. Honestly, I wouldn't expect quick results.
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Anna
A bit too early for results
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Irina
You want results too quickly.
First,

Second, there are cases where a tutor is powerless.
No offense, but a tutor isn't a magician or a wizard who can force something into a child's head if it just won't stick.
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Irina
Irina I'm an English tutor myself.
And you know how many cases I've seen in my practice where parents bring in a child who's completely behind in the subject with absolutely no motivation.
Plus, the language is hard for them, and they can't even retain the basics.

And the parents want quick results.
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Tatyana Ruzanova
You can only see a noticeable result in 4 sessions if the tutor simply helps the child with homework, explaining why things should be done a certain way, and has a little time to reinforce it. Then, positive grades might start appearing in the notebook. But if the tutor focuses only on addressing the gaps they've identified, there won't be quick, visible results, because school keeps moving forward.
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kushner ekaterina
Olga She worked with a different tutor last year. Her grades were okay, ranging from 2s to the occasional 5. This year, we switched to someone else.
I'm not looking for quick results, I never wrote that anywhere!)
I just asked what she should know after 4 sessions.
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kushner ekaterina
Irina I'm not offended. And I'm not expecting quick results. Where do you read all this?)? I asked what should happen after the classes.
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Irina
Irina It might be nothing at all.
4 sessions are just a warm-up for severe cases.

It's like athletic training.

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Veshnyakova Irina
Veshnyakova Irina Don't feel bad, you've already taken a big step to help your baby. So you're already doing great!
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