So, her husband punished her: took away her phone and canceled the trip. She cried for an hour. She…

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So, her husband punished her: took away her phone and canceled the trip. She cried for an hour. She even left the house and went to the stairwell. Then she came back and started saying, 'You don't love me, I'm not needed, so I'll die from the 13th floor and everyone will be happy.' Okay. We talked to her, and she seemed to calm down. But I don't know if she understood why she was punished... Then her father called. She started complaining to him about everything. He calls me and starts lecturing me. 'You're behaving incorrectly, she sees you as a friend and doesn't listen. You're constantly yelling at her. You need to do it differently.' I said, 'I'll probably take her when I finish the apartment renovation, there will be enough space. I just need to talk to my wife. You can't handle it. I'll re-educate her.' I said, 'And how do you imagine this: changing schools, her familiar environment, how will that affect her? Her state is already unstable. Moreover, he says he'll take her for, like, a year, no less. And then what? Uprooting the child back and forth... He says, 'Your family situation is unstable, something abnormal is happening. You need to take her...' So, the person thinks he can just re-educate her. 'She doesn't talk to me or behave like that with me...' What to do, how to be. It's all such a mess.
Does anyone know who the kids went to or are going to? How are their classes? What should a child ev…
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Reshetko Oksana
Give it back right now. I don't think his wife will be thrilled
But tell her that if she takes him, it's forever. Don't drag the child back and forth.
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Alena Kotelevskaya
Let your child spend time with their father and let him parent.
Be involved in the parenting, call and ask how things are going or where they're going.
Most importantly, ask your child if they actually want to do it.
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irina samoylova
Hmm... Did your husband punish you without your knowledge, or was it a joint decision?
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Olga
So, what did you decide about the medications the doctor prescribed?
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Olga
Would you let your child go if they wanted to?
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Biryuk Svetlana
Oh yeah, school… A change, back and forth for a year, does she live far away?
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Irina Vishnyakova
Empty will show class
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Katerina
Well, if he picks her up from school, there's no need to rush to translate. A couple of weeks and he'll send her back, it's just extra hassle.
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kushner ekaterina
Biryuk Svetlana We're in Novosibirsk, he's in Moscow
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kushner ekaterina
Alena Kotelevskaya In her mind, it's an escape from all problems. She visited there, and everything is fine when you're a guest. So it seems like it will always be that way. And he, accordingly, thinks that I'm to blame for the madness that's going on with us. And he knows how it should be.
Well, maybe he does know. I don't know anything myself anymore.
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Biryuk Svetlana
Biryuk Svetlana Yeah, it's kinda meh...
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kushner ekaterina
If it weren't for school. Yes, please, I'd send her tomorrow. She said to take her for three months in the summer and raise her. If it works out. We write the application and let her study 8th and 9th grade with you.
Pulling her out mid-year isn't an option.
Especially since she's in Moscow. And I don't know how kids in Moscow feel about people from the provinces. And the child is very sensitive to everything.
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kushner ekaterina
Thank you
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