Would you judge this woman? She gave birth to a son very prematurely. The child has cerebral palsy a…

Would you judge this woman? She gave birth to a son very prematurely. The child has cerebral palsy and several other diagnoses (I don't know the exact ones, we aren't close, she's just a neighbor). Her husband left for bread and never returned, and she's raising the child alone. Everyone in town knows her because she often holds fundraisers for rehabilitation. She can't go to work (as far as I understand, she doesn't have much family support either) and lives on disability benefits, but she owns her apartment. She decided to give her child up for adoption. She says her nerves are completely shot. The child can't even swallow, has no reflexes, just lies there and breathes. She apparently had no one to talk to, so she told our elderly neighbor, who then spread it to everyone, and now all the old ladies in our building gather every evening near the entrance and badmouth her. This evening, I was returning home, and they attacked me: "What do you think about this? How could someone give up their own flesh and blood??" I replied that I couldn't judge someone in such a situation, especially when I have a healthy child. My son walks on his own, takes care of himself, and right now I'm on vacation with him (he's 5 years old, more independent), and it's really not our place to judge. So, she has her own apartment, disability benefits, and decided to do this. And for about 5 days now, there's been a women's commotion in our building. My husband said he saw this woman herself being lectured near the entrance. What are your thoughts on this? Just curious. Do you judge her, or do you also not care how others live?