Said goodbye to the lawyer today. I paid for the consultation, wrote and sent the letter with detail…

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Said goodbye to the lawyer today. I paid for the consultation, wrote and sent the letter with details of what happened, as she asked. I asked if she could outline a general plan of action within the consultation so I could work on it myself further. But then an unpleasant dialogue ensued with her. Honestly, in my 45 years, this is the first time I've encountered something like this. Specifically, psychological abuse. The conversation lasted about 10 minutes, and I spent the whole time verbally fending her off and defending myself, holding back the urge to tell her off. But, being a person with great inner strength, I listened to the end, said goodbye on a normal note. After that, I processed the dialogue, or rather a monologue, as I wasn't allowed to get a word in... and I wrote to her, thanking her for the time she spent on me (which I paid for), and for the consultation, and said that was all. I wasted the day. I couldn't work after our conversation. I couldn't calm down for a long time. My muscles started twitching (nervous tics). And only after I ended our acquaintance did I calm down, more or less. Life has prepared so many interesting challenges for me at this point in time. And how clearly people connected to me in one way or another are revealing themselves right now. Honestly, there's a lot to think about. I'll go to the Center for Social Support of the Family during the work week; they have lawyers there, I'll try to get a consultation on an urgent basis. And I'll stop by the bar association in our building. Maybe they can help clarify the plan of action. And I will contact the inspector at the State Housing Inspectorate, to whom the Prosecutor's Office forwarded my appeal for execution.
I connected with a lawyer today. My head is spinning. I don't know where to start or what to tackle…
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tanya
😳 What else could she say?!
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Oksana
You're already doing great by not putting up with it. Try all the options that will affect you the least. Who knows, maybe the most fantastic option will turn out to be a reality.
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Kristina
Hang in there, I hope everything turns out okay. People in these professions should make things easier and help solve problems, not make you fight back verbally... I'm sorry this is happening.
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Mishel
Oksana I'll think about it. There are still quite a few options...
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Mishel
tanya There are just some really strange people who don't know how to communicate with others at all. I think she's one of them… Very rude, authoritarian communication style. I just sat there feeling drained after the conversation.
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Mishel
Well, I came to a similar conclusion. But it took me a couple of hours to recover. I just wasn't expecting it.
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Olga
Of course, such an attitude is shocking and can throw you off balance, at least temporarily.
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Mama Nadyusha
Hi Nika. What kind of lawyer are you looking for? Would a barrister work? She's a very, very skilled woman, but she doesn't live in St. Petersburg. She teaches at our university.
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Mishel
Mama Nadyusha I'm already scared... Someone who can suggest a plan of action during a consultation so I can continue on my own... I'm not sure I can handle managing the case. I told them honestly and right away. And this lawyer was very indignant and said, 'Ah, I'll write everything down for you now, and then you'll go off and do your own thing, that's not how I work.'
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Agapitova Anya
This really unpleasant story will eventually end.
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tanya
tanya and for money too 🙄
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Churkina (Belous) Diana
So sad... where did you find such a miracle lawyer?
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Mishel
Churkina (Belous) Diana The church gave me some contacts. She's Orthodox, which was unexpected overall.
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Suhareva Olga
What a nightmare, sending you support
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Suhareva Olga
Suhareva Olga My fiancé had an unpleasant experience with a lawyer. They charged him twice, and he needed a lawyer to get the money back. She took his money but didn't achieve any results. In the end, he figured everything out himself and got his money back in court.
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Churkina (Belous) Diana
Churkina (Belous) Diana Wow… that's really unexpected.
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S Tasiss
Wishing you find the right person, strength, and patience!
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