Someone's teething, and my mother-in-law is visiting. By the way, for those who don't know or have f…

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Someone's teething, and my mother-in-law is visiting. By the way, for those who don't know or have forgotten (it's been three years, after all): she once arrived unannounced and called my husband to surprise him with the news. He was napping then, so he forwarded the call to me. But he didn't know I was also snoozing in the living room (we have this habit of napping for an hour after lunch). My phone was on silent, so she couldn't reach me, and she left without achieving anything, so to speak. The story turned out to be absurd and funny from all angles: 1) she had the nerve to call from the doorstep, announcing her arrival, but for some reason decided not to knock, even though she knew we were both home (if she had come, she could have woken her son if she couldn't reach me... and I would have woken up too, and she would have reached the door))) and 2) her son, who unlike me, at least knew his mom was hanging around outside, got off with just a boycott. I, who found out about all this a couple of hours later, received a few angry voice messages with the usual threats ("just wait until your daughter grows up and treats you the same way"). Well, whatever, honestly – three years of silence were worth it. Now she's decided it's time to forget old grudges and invited her son over, providing a "material" reason: she's not young anymore, anything can happen – the heir needs to know where the millions are buried. Just kidding, though the gist was something like that. Of course, I wasn't invited anywhere (I'm clearly still holding a bigger grudge). I'm not *that* upset about being overlooked (in any case, my husband was instructed to say I was working that day, no matter what day the visit was). But I couldn't help but notice that she didn't mention her granddaughter in the initial messages either. The very same darling, beloved little bird, over whom she once even threatened to sue me: she announced her visit on a day I was busy, and because of that, she decided I was preventing her from seeing her precious grandchild and declared war on me in court. My husband, of course, took our daughter with him – after all, the child barely remembers her grandmother anymore. But the moment itself was telling. Long story short, I feel like a new era in my relationship with my mother-in-law is dawning.
I like to peek at posts about the parent committee sometimes: I don't see the need or joy in it myse… I think there will be a few posts about her today, now that she's so carelessly re-entered my life.…
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Elina
Hang in there ✊
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Kristina
Yes, and how is she doing?
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Talantseva Evgeniya
You must have slept well for 3 years, the situation is crazy, of course, to the max 😅
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Yuliya
Funny you😊
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Irina
I have a private account (I use it a lot, by the way)
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Olga
Whatever.
I always generously let them have the honor of playing their own games. But for some reason, they get annoyed. Ungrateful 😁
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Nadezda
Yeah
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Tatyana Molodchinina
This can't be true. 🙄 Showing up, ringing the doorbell, knowing your son is inside, and then getting offended because you couldn't reach your daughter-in-law – it's like she was looking for a reason...
I'm sorry the silence has been exhausted. Sending you strength, patience, and wisdom, although simply avoiding her might be enough 😁
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Nastya
See previous post about the deaf-mute... Valuable skill...
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Tatyana Molodchinina Hehe)) This lady and I have so many stories that "couldn't possibly be true" that it's surprising this one became so iconic)) She lives an hour away, and I work sooo much... Anyway, there's a chance we might not see each other at all)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Nadezda So far so good :)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Olga I did the same thing)) I didn't reply to voice messages, partly to avoid starting an unnecessary conversation)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Irina What do I need him for? She hasn't written to me in ages)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Yuliya It's been funnier)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Talantseva Evgeniya She didn't stop me from sleeping enough)) But three years without hypocrisy is a real gift)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Kristina I'm doing okay for now)) I've already booked my husband for next week (he says he really needs to help physically)... We'll see how things go from here)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Elina There's a chance that at 72, she's not as spry as she used to be to travel so far for visits, so I hope nothing much changes for me!)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
Nastya I'm pretending I don't exist for now) And since my mother-in-law tries to be more English than the English themselves, I hope she'll organize some self-care for me according to local customs when the time comes)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
No, that's not right: children treat their parents as their parents treat them (conditionally)), not as their parents treat their grandparents) People generally evaluate how they are treated, not how someone else is treated)
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sofia namgaladze
Yeah, whether this era is necessary is debatable)
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Pozdnyakova Yuliya
sofia namgaladze I don't have any at all) I'll be waiting with interest for two dates: my daughter's birthday and my own - will she congratulate me? She used to "break spears" so much about communicating with her beloved granddaughter, and now she's forgotten about me for all these years) By the way, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't even remember when her beloved granddaughter's birthday is (I don't have any information about this on FB))
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sofia namgaladze
sofia namgaladze Yes, most likely that's the case.
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