Your husband has a brother, and he has a wife. Do you get along with her?! Let me share my story. My…

Your husband has a brother, and he has a wife. Do you get along with her?! Let me share my story. My husband's brother and I live on the same street; we used to get along better with his wife than we do now. I wanted to be friends with her since our husbands are close and often visit each other's homes. But I realized that her friendship with me is just a burden. We invite them over for summer barbecues, casual hangouts, dinners, and holidays. Yet, they only invite us to their birthday, never for any other gatherings. Again, I must say: the husbands are on good terms. She is 13 years older than me, but she tries to keep up with the younger generation. Age doesn't seem to hinder our communication. I noticed she mimics me—my husband even pointed it out. They rest in the same places and stay in the same accommodations as us, without saying anything. We only find out through her brother. In photos, she looks exactly like me. She likes my posts, then removes the likes. I've noticed she lies. She praised her earrings, claiming she bought gold ones with some unusual large stones. Later, I saw those exact earrings in a store—they were costume jewelry for 900 rubles. Those were definitely them. I would like to get closer, as we live nearby and the husbands are brothers. However, she gets along better with her brother's sister. She's often without her husband, constantly facing problems, sometimes without work or money. She frequently invites her over, and they drink in the evenings. To be honest, it hurts!!! Do you get along with your husband's brothers' wives? And how close are you?