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My daughter has started fifth grade, and we have a new homeroom teacher. Today I had the chance to meet her—she's 21. It turns out she is a graduate of the same school; when she was 22, my daughter helped her transition from the school into adulthood at the end of first grade. Today she told the children to follow the rules and show appropriate respect. She also named a completely unfamiliar woman from the parents' committee, who is much older than her; the woman looked surprised and unhappy. Additionally, our homeroom teacher did not think it necessary to hold a parents’ meeting to at least introduce herself to the parents. Today the kids went to the school to pick up their textbooks, and they happened to meet the teachers. Three parents who came with the children today met her. Yet within a week she hadn’t reached out to the subject teachers to find out exactly what the children would need for their subjects. Although the parents’ committee asked her to do this several times, the teachers ended up being contacted by the parents themselves, and everything was purchased. Parents are stunned by how many odd moments there are. At the start of the school year, the children also had a young teacher, 22, who was also teaching a class for the first time. With us she turned out to be quite noticeable, and sometimes not everything went smoothly. Nevertheless, she kept an eye on everything and handled many issues: meals, subject teachers, buses — she knew all the information and passed it on to the parents. Even though this is her first year, our children are her first class: she took the class under her wing, but there’s still a lot she doesn’t understand and she can’t always solve everything. Parents don’t know how to take her seriously. Perhaps she’s young and not very organized, and maybe all this has come with the kids.
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Kushnir Anna
У нас. За два года стала собранней. В 7 идём, ведет русский и литературу)
Svetlana
Ну так собрание может просто в сентябре будет. У нас тоже не было, 2й класс, новый учитель, которому 19 лет, парень закончил колледж. первый опыт… многие не довольны, собрание будет а сентябре… не знаю, что из этого получится, предыдущий учитель тоже молодая ушла в декрет, золотце прям, детей так мотивировала к учебе, проводила занятия так, что они реально поняли что учеба это не скучно. Знаний ща первый год дала много, а что будет сейчас… Увидим)
Olga
Люди бывают разные, конечно прийдёт может в норма может ей пофиг на все и всех)
Ekaterina
Тут дело не в её молодом возрасте, она вот такая и вряд ли сильно изменится)
Anna
Svetlana Everything about school is new for the children, except for her. She should explain where they should go for the other subjects. The class rules. Meals will begin on September 1, but not for our children. Since meals in elementary school were free, from the 5th grade a fee is charged, but she doesn’t know how much to pay or where to pay. 🤦️
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Anna
Kushnir Anna For our math class, they somehow assigned us a different teacher for some reason.
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Svetlana
Svetlana Right now the problem is that the new teachers really don’t know anything yet, because official employment for them starts only on September 1, and until then essentially no one is officially hired. My mother-in-law is a teacher, and she explained it to me that way. Our Pedagogical Council met only today, and they aren’t aware of everything yet either—they’ll sort it all out starting on the 1st. But at least our colleague, even though she’s on maternity leave, is fully supervising him; in the group chat she’s coordinating the conversation with him to get him up to speed as quickly as possible, because there is absolutely no information at all.
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Kristina
All complaints are understandable, except one: she addressed a complete stranger who is much older than her by name. And how was she supposed to address them? Is the woman upset that she was addressed by name? It’s strange, of course; she didn’t realize this could hurt 🤷️

Try to coach the teacher, set up an in-person parent–teacher meeting with the teacher, and prepare your view of her leadership style; discuss what would be convenient for you and how.
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Kristina
Svetlana Have you never paid for lunch? Are you a beneficiary?
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Anna
Kristina Of course, the woman introduced herself by her first name and patronymic. In addition, the teacher has a list of students and their parents, in which both the first names and patronymics are written.
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Valyushka
Kristina First name\nPatronymic
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Kosheleva-Stepanenko Darya
Something could still turn on, of course. For now, there’s just one downside. We’ll see how things work in practice. It might actually be quite alright.

My son's teacher is young as well, and he’s new to first grade. At first, he seemed to handle safety fairly well. Then it wasn’t so good. But I think it also depends on the leadership. Not always, of course.
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Anna
Svetlana No, lunches for students in grades 1 through 4 were free for everyone.
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Kristina
Kristina People are all different, of course, and I don't really like it when someone addresses me by my first name and patronymic. I don't like it at work either :-). So, did the woman stay quiet, or did she ask to be addressed by her first name and patronymic?
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Kristina
Kristina There are many progressive changes happening these days; in many places people already address others with the formal 'you' and by their first names. 🤷️
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Anna
Kosheleva-Stepanenko Darya Today she asked the children, "What is something you should take with you if there's a fire alarm?" The children couldn't come up with the right answer. I couldn't either; I had only one response: "Myself."

Everything else can wait — the important thing is to get out of the building. She replied that you should take with you "your phone, your keys, and a map." I can imagine how the children will search for all of these in a panic, and God forbid they don’t manage to leave the building. 🤦️
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Kristina
Svetlana Wow, only the breakfasts were free for everyone, while lunches were free only for those who qualify for benefits.
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Kosheleva-Stepanenko Darya
Kosheleva-Stepanenko Darya Oh my goodness.
This is already too much.
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Anna
Kristina She remained silent and spoke only to us, the parents. By etiquette, people are addressed by their first name and patronymic, and there, people negotiate if something isn’t satisfactory.
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Kristina
Kristina Well, she just kept quiet 🤦️🤦️🤦️ How is the teacher supposed to understand that IO specifically needs her?
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Darya
Maybe someone will take her under the wing of experienced teachers and make her Teacher of the Year.)
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Anna
Svetlana We had only one meal a day, usually the second one—probably breakfast. Lunches weren't needed, since the children were already home by that time, and we didn't even hear about them. But yes, beneficiaries were entitled to a second meal; I had heard about that.
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Bazarbaeva olga
Kristina I don't like it either, but the teacher and the caregivers always follow IO.
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Tatyana
There's already a stigma forming around the teacher even before the school year starts. Please give her time to settle in, to get used to the chats, the students, the parents, and the reporting requirements. She may not yet be fully familiar with the other teachers. I understand your frustration, but if your children spent the first week without an outline map in geography, nothing terrible would have happened. The complaint about addressing students by their first names is a bit much. Maybe she simply didn't remember their patronymic, or perhaps she didn't know it at all. 🤦
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Svetlana
Here, no one holds meetings before school starts, except for first grade. All meetings take place in September, during the second to the third week of the term. The subject teachers announced all their requirements in the first lesson; no one called them or passed anything along. You haven't even started classes yet, and you already have a biased attitude toward this person.
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Marina
Here you are, parents—please help the inexperienced teacher. We’ve all started our jobs without experience.
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Kristina
Kristina I like being addressed by my name, and I asked for that right away. Here, a woman is upset, but the teachers haven't corrected it.
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Olga
Ekaterina I absolutely agree.
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Kushnir Anna
Kushnir Anna They wanted to assign us a German-language teacher in fifth grade, in a setting where German isn't a required second subject.
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