Klyueva irina

2 children

I bought my daughter glasses, which was expensive for me, almost 28,000 rubles. The doctor prescribe…

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I bought my daughter glasses, which was expensive for me, almost 28,000 rubles. The doctor prescribed them, but she doesn't want to wear them. The glasses are less than a week old: yesterday, when she came home from school, she took off her sweater and accidentally sat on them, cracking the frame. And I need to go to the clinic for treatments on Monday wearing these same glasses. I talked to my daughter and husband, but she still doesn't want to wear them. She's looking for reasons, blaming others for her vision worsening. Do your children take care of their belongings? I remembered my childhood: my mom bought me a backpack, if anyone remembers, made of leather scraps, but the straps tore off from the weight of the books. How she scolded me then!

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Oksana

1 child

no, nothing is valued at all

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Olesya

2 children

They try to be careful, but my younger one sometimes crumples things or tears them accidentally. The older one is a neat freak. She has glasses. They're much cheaper than yours, but she cherishes them so much. I don't treat my things with as much care as she does.

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Valeriya

2 children

My son is very careful with his belongings, but my daughter is a bit of a destroyer. I don't know why she's like that. Maybe she'll draw on a new pencil case with a pen, for example.
When you were choosing glasses, did you listen to her opinion? Does she specifically dislike these ones, or any glasses at all?

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Tatyana

3 children

so my daughter has lenses)

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Klyueva irina

2 children

Tatyana Night sweats?

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Tatyana

3 children

Tatyana Daytime.
I didn't notice any results from the nighttime ones myself (I bought them when they first came out).

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November 7, 2026 at 1:36 PM

Yulya Tokareva

Valeriya Oh wow, I have the same situation. My son is very careful with his things – computer, phone, clothes, shoes – he looks after everything, keeps it all neat. My daughter, on the other hand… we have to replace her shoes twice a month, everything gets ruined on her feet. Pants rip, t-shirts get stained, we've already changed her phone 3 times this year 🤦️ But she's also more active than my son. She signed herself up for choir and chess at school, and she also goes to dance and gymnastics 🤸️ She's always busy with something.

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November 7, 2026 at 1:39 PM

Olga

2 children

My daughter is very careless with her things... she tears them or breaks them and doesn't care, thinking they'll be replaced. Now she's learned her lesson. She tore her backpack – so now she either saves up to buy a new one herself, or she carries the torn one around, or she finds a way to fix it. She's really gotten on my nerves because of this.

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November 7, 2026 at 1:42 PM

Kristina

1 child

She could have been a little more careful (I'm talking about mine)

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November 7, 2026 at 1:48 PM

Valeriya

2 children

Valeriya Phones are a whole other level of pain. My son broke one once in his life and was so upset. My daughter smashed all our old phones. We bought her a new one, and she drops it like 100 times a day. She ended up breaking it. We replaced the screen, but it's been glitching a bit. No wonder, after all those falls! The screen replacement was 50/50. I paid part, and part came from her allowance. We had to cancel an order she placed on Wildberries. Apparently, this wasn't convincing enough, and stricter measures are needed.

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November 7, 2026 at 1:48 PM

Aleksandra

3 children

Many babies are like that.

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November 7, 2026 at 1:51 PM

Kristina Krasnova

1 child, pregnant, 36 weeks

Mine doesn't appreciate things at all. Around age 6, we could leave the store with a new toy, and the first question was: 'Can I break it?'

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November 7, 2026 at 1:54 PM

natka87

2 children

and what's the point of scolding... you get annoyed, but what is there to scold for? we adults mess up a lot, and no one scolds us

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November 7, 2026 at 1:54 PM

Gulya

1 child

My glasses are already 4 years old. We only change the lenses. Very careful

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November 7, 2026 at 2:06 PM

Irina

2 children

Not great with glasses, but we have insurance for them) We already had to replace the frames after a school collision)

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November 7, 2026 at 2:09 PM

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