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My son doesn't want to go to kindergarten, but I don't force him. Last spring he refused to go. Now we have approved leave from work until October; I think I'll extend it — we live outside the city, and he plays with other kids. But in kindergarten it's not welcomed: the director says, 'well, he has to go to kindergarten' — to whom does he have to go? I read there that everyone gets sick, some have Coxsackie, some have a 39°C fever — why should I deal with that? My son talks a lot, but much is unclear: last year there was a situation where someone hurt him; he pointed at a girl, and the teacher said, 'that can't be.' So the question: if I keep extending the leave and submit the application, won't we be expelled from the kindergarten?
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chukavina tatyana
Could you tell me why you're reserving a spot when it's not necessary?
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natalya
Well, it does take up a spot... and someone can't go to work because there isn't a slot available in daycare/kindergarten 🤷️
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Marina
natalya We’re experiencing low enrollment at the moment—please don’t worry.
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Marina
chukavina tatyana We're a bit understaffed, but please don't worry.
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chukavina tatyana
chukavina tatyana I'm not worried—I'm just wondering why this is necessary.
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kristina
If you don’t want to, don’t drive. It’s your business and your choice. Mine doesn’t want to either, but I can’t carry her around the house for long 😄
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natalya
We can take up to 30 days per year of unpaid leave, with a certificate from work stating that one parent is on leave or due to illness.
The remaining days must be paid.
And while we’re paying, it feels like no one cares whether we show up.
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Olya
If you’re constantly taking vacations and personal days, it would be better to withdraw and give another child the opportunity to attend in your place.
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Marina
kristina Honestly, I was feeling okay overall, but around 3 a.m. I had a crisis. I worried I might handle it the wrong way. I cut a banana, then put on something, and now it’s better. 😅😅😅
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Marina
Olya We won't be online consistently until November.
We will be on vacation in September and October.
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Marina
natalya We don’t offer that option. Payment is required only when the child is in kindergarten.
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Marina
chukavina tatyana So my child will start kindergarten in November, and I’ll begin working again in the winter. Where should I send him?
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Marina
Olya We're short on members; we're not taking anyone's place )
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Alla Ivanova
It's not very fair to take a seat that someone in greater need deserves. The person doing so is unlikely to be expelled.
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Olya
Olya It's worth talking to the head of the kindergarten, but you should understand that if the child loses the habit, you'll have to go through the adaptation period again—do you really want that? It's stressful for the child. And going without kindergarten until school starts isn't ideal either.
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Diana Kalinovskaya
First, try changing the group entirely.
There will be different caregivers there.
If that doesn’t help, then consider the kindergarten.
It’s not that the child doesn’t want to go to kindergarten; he probably just doesn’t like it there.
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Diana Kalinovskaya
First, try changing the group entirely. There will be different educators. And if that doesn't help, then consider the kindergarten itself—it's not that the child doesn't want to go to kindergarten; it's more likely that he just doesn't like it there.
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