Girls, I met a girl at my son's practice, and we really hit it off. Her son is always over at our pl…

Girls, I met a girl at my son's practice, and we really hit it off. Her son is always over at our place. We always give him gifts and stuff, but that's kind of our initiative, and they never reciprocate at all. Like, not even a chocolate bar sent with him just once... but okay, whatever. I told her, let's go for a walk. She says, "Oh, I can't, I'm always busy..." So, it's her birthday, and I ask her how she's celebrating. She says, "Oh, not at all, I don't like my birthday and I celebrate it myself," and then I find out she's celebrating with another girl. But that's not the main point. Would you give her a gift? We're seeing her on Monday when we pick up the kids. Would you congratulate her on her birthday after the fact and give her a gift?