Here's what I want to tell you first: My husband and I recently got married and were renting an apartment at the time. Later, we decided to move in with his parents when I became pregnant. My father-in-law and mother-in-law are generally wonderful people. But my father-in-law died from an illness, leaving my mother-in-law behind. She doesn't want us to move out; we treat each other with a lot of respect. We have our own apartment, but it's not renovated yet — renovations are underway. It's convenient for us to live together; we support each other. But my husband has an older brother, 35 years old: not family-minded, no housing, no job — he works a couple of weeks on a construction site and then quits. Logically, he doesn't seem to be needed by anyone. And now I would like him to live separately, but my mother-in-law wants him to move in with us as well. My mother-in-law does his laundry, cooks his meals, even serves him; he is like a domestic dependent: contributes nothing to the home, only drinks and parties. My husband, my mother-in-law, and I buy everything ourselves, from milk to groceries. So what do you think we should do in such a situation? What would my mother-in-law say we should do in such a situation?