We have a group of 4-6 girls, they are called 'girlfriends'. Mine sometimes interacts with some of t…

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We have a group of 4-6 girls, they are called 'girlfriends'. Mine sometimes interacts with some of them, but she's comfortable making friends one-on-one, and she and her bestie are almost always together. The bestie herself isn't against others. We were taking photos of the kids for an album and they were asked to draw commemorative pictures on the board. Everyone went out except my daughter. My daughter was drawing, and so were the others, but then one girl (she's a bit of a troublemaker) started insulting my daughter's drawing. My daughter suggested everyone focus on their own drawing and not interfere with each other, but the other girl pushed her and erased her drawing. My daughter erased hers in response. Then the girlfriends joined in, and the herd mentality kicked in. Even the ones my daughter usually talks to started agreeing with the majority. Although before that, everyone was fine. They didn't let her draw. She came home upset. How should a child act in such a situation? After all, one person can't fight the whole crowd. (I can't use my own experience, I used to handle things harshly) We don't want to confront the other girls' parents.
Today I met a friend who works as a nanny in a state kindergarten. She said, 'Oh, I'm so worried: th… Have you noticed any changes in your baby's behavior after all this? Have there been any complaints…
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chukavina tatyana
Don't gang up on one person, it's not nice.
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chukavina tatyana
chukavina tatyana I'm teaching my daughter not to dance to the tune of people like that, under any circumstances. But I allow her to give them a punch in the nose in a critical situation, and I'll deal with the teacher afterwards.
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chukavina tatyana
chukavina tatyana We're covering "friends," but there are other people who might have seen something.
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Kristina
Kids drawing and fighting with no adult around? Haven't encountered that situation.
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Yuliya
chukavina tatyana Not the whole class was there; they were split into groups. Besides, my daughter isn't really liked in her class – they see her as a nerd and a know-it-all. So, she won't find any support there.
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Yuliya
Kristina There was only the photographer, who didn't interfere and was setting up equipment. He wasn't there to watch them, but to do his job. The teacher wasn't there; perhaps she was with another group of children, as they were divided.
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Yuliya
The children were divided into groups, she probably went with a group of other children. Perhaps they weren't supposed to draw anything, the photographer had a spontaneous idea, and then they started arguing there.
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Yuliya
She's had run-ins with this girl before, mostly one-on-one, and they just don't see eye to eye.
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Yuliya
Kristina I think the conflict itself took no more than 5 minutes. The teacher said I took the other children to the lesson (it was PE). They were taken in groups somehow.
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Yuliya
Kristina did not stop the learning process
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Kristina
Kristina Well then, let it go. The photographer wanted something, it didn't work out, so just forget about it.

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Yuliya
We are considering a specific situation: my child has been on medication for almost a year. It doesn't make sense to evaluate posts before therapy, as she has no issues. The teacher notes that she doesn't conflict with anyone and isn't the initiator of conflicts.
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Jullia
Always ask adults for help; children can't solve things on their own, they don't know how...
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Yuliya
Jullia They had this whole fuss with photos for three lessons, some chaos, and they were even delayed, and everyone else had already rushed home. And the teacher has a second shift right after, so my daughter didn't even bother.
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